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47 Lakewood, WA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35-52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 9:42am
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Average build
Christianity and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Warning: This is long (but hopefully worth the read). Finishing is a testament to your Stick-To-It'iveness and endurance (or high tolerance for pain.)

Ultimately, I'm looking for my best friend and life-long lover, I'm open to making new friends and activity partners until that happens.

** If you are one of the few scammers on the planet who has yet to message me, please don't. If you have some insight as to why EVERY scammer sets their sights on me, please share them. I don't want to become jaded, but, SHEESH!

Disclaimer: I have a few faults. Let's get those out of the way. If there's a deal-breaker in there, I'll save you some time.
.... Hold on... I'm thinking.....There must be something...
.... Oh! Here's one! -- I don't like cooked beans. (But I do like jelly beans.)
.... I can be a bit shy and reserved when meeting new people. If you are Mr. Sociable-never-met-a-stranger, help me get warmed up before you start making the rounds, please, then I will be just fine.
.... Oh, and I'm afraid of spiders. If I must defend myself from an eight-legged marauder, I WILL emerge victorious. If you're in the house, I will beg you to rescue me - and then demonstrate my overflowing gratitude.

I'm a Christian. I would really like to share that with my partner.

If you would like a response, please have something to say in your message. Show me you've taken the time to read (at least a little) of my profile and you care about what I've said.

Things that will make you think I'm awesome:
** I'm an indoor/outdoor girl. You can take me to do just about anything. I don't mind getting dirty with you (literally or figuratively) and I like getting pretty for you, too.
** The world does not come to a screeching halt if I'm having a bad hair day. That's what pony tails are for. My range is not limited to the length of my blow dryer cord.
** I'm smart and I have an opinion. I don't expect you to always agree with it, but I do want you to consider it.
** I'm sassy. I can even be bratty -- but I like it when you call me on it.
** I won't pester you during 'the game' with ignorant questions. I know when it's a good play, I know when it's a crummy call. I can discuss strategy and I know when to just shut up and cheer.
** I'm an excellent infielder and I can hit.
** I am supportive and an excellent teammate. I want you to be happy and successful and will do every reasonable thing, within my sphere of influence, to make it happen.
** I genuinely care about you and what you care about. If I don't understand it, I will try to learn. If I still don't understand, I will smile and nod and offer you a shoulder (?) massage.
** I can say "I'm sorry" and "I was wrong" without choking.... but if it's on Google, I will verify, first. (Oh how Iove Google in my pocket.)
** I am honest to a fault, but I try to be tactful and loving with my honesty.
** I am loyal and will always have your back.
** I don't think the world revolves around me (but it's ok if you think it does.)
** Chocolate chip cookies are my superpower. Ok, so maybe I can't save Metropolis with chocolate chip cookies (although, we don't know that for certain) but I am always very popular at a potluck.
** I have a sense of adventure and common sense... but lack a reliable sense of direction. (Thank you GPS.)
** Physical affection ROCKS! I love to be held by you and feel your breath on my skin. I enjoy tactful PDA, but don't demand it.
** I believe kissing is an art and art should be experienced every chance we get. Mmmmmm... kissing!
** Travel, art, history and culture feed my soul. (I'm an awesome travel companion! I've been to about 20 countries and am anxious to add to that.)
** Moms love me because they quickly see how great I am for their son.
** I love it that you tease me because you know I don't take myself too seriously.
** I have a naughty streak.
** I am open-minded to new things you'd like me to try (choose your context here) -- ok, so maybe not terribly adventurous in the area of food. I have some food rules: 1) No animals with less than two legs or more than four. (I know, it's almost sacrilegious for a native Washingtonian to not like seafood.) 2) Flesh must be cooked. 3) Nothing that is commonly referred to as "guts."
** God did not paint me like a Disney princess or a Victoria's Secret model... He did, however, paint me like a renaissance masterpiece.
** People always refer to drama and game-playing: I don't even understand what that really means. I have no pretense or ulterior motives. I'm about as transparent as one can get.
** I am a peacemaker, compromiser, harmony-lover.

I agree, chemistry is a must. I may not click with you. You may not click with me. Meeting is the litmus test.

I value:
Intelligence - Challenge my thinking; teach me new things. Integrity - Inspire me to be my best person by striving to be yours.
Humor - Laugh with me.
Stimulation - Emotional, physical, spiritual
Intimacy - 'Nuff said.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Galavanting the globe, Rafting raging rivers, Meandering majestic mountains, Moseying through museums, Cavorting with my canine, Admiring art, Spectating sports, Conversing over coffee, Snuggling on the sofa with someone special, Love laughter, G'head- gimme a giggle
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being articulate ...
listening ...
letting people know what I love about them ...
I'm a great travel companion.
I make the BEST chocolate chip cookies!
I'm an excellent infielder and can throw as hard as some guys I know. (-looking for a team... anyone need a solid 1st or 3rd baseman?)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I don't have many 'favorites.' I enjoy a variety of things and my favorites change depending on my mood, but a sampling of my tastes might include: (I know, a lot of these are juvenile titles, but I enjoyed them with my nephews and nieces.)
Books: All Creatures Great and Small series by James Harriott, The Lord of the Rings, the Narnia books, Harry Potter, most by Jane Austin or Shakespeare...
Movies: LOTR, Braveheart, Schindler's List, the Passion of the Christ, Galaxy Quest, Anne of Green Gables, anything by Pixar and most animated Disney...
Shows: Criminal Minds, CSI, Friends reruns...
Music: 80's, classic rock, Contemporary Christian, country...
Food: Mexican, Italian..
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My relationship with Jesus.
Loving relationships (family/friends)
A noble purpose in life.
Music I can sing along to
Green Mountains
Ice cream
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My relationship with God, my relationship with friends/family, my job, current events, my future
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Professionally, and in the absence of a clear leader, I will step up and take the reins, however, I prefer someone who is generally take-charge in a relationship.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. are a man of integrity who has his life together and has something to say. Starting an introduction with "Hey gorgeous" (especially when you have clearly not read my profile) does not impress me and you are less likely to get a response.

You are smart enough to recognize what a great catch I am. :-)

p.s. If you don't show a picture, it is unlikely that I will respond.