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46 Lakewood, WA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:48pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Christianity, and very serious about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Warning: This is long (but hopefully worth the read). Finishing is a testament to your Stick-To-It'iveness (or high tolerance for pain.)

Disclaimer: I have a few faults. Let's get those out of the way. If there's a deal-breaker in there, I'll save you some time.
.... Hold on... I'm thinking.....There must be something...
.... Oh! Here's one! -- I don't like cooked beans. (But I do like jelly beans.)
.... I can be a bit shy and reserved when meeting new people. If you are Mr. Sociable-never-met-a-stranger, help me get warmed up before you start making the rounds, please, then I will be just fine.
.... Oh, and I'm afraid of spiders. If I must defend myself from an eight-legged marauder, I WILL emerge victorious. If you're in the house, I will beg you to rescue me - and then demonstrate my overflowing gratitude.

I'm a Christian. Shared values are a non-negotiable for me. If you're a Christian, you probably understand why. If you don't understand, that is precisely why we would not be a good fit, but I wish you well. If you message me and you're not a Christian, I will most likely not respond; not because you're not a Christian, but because you clearly didn't read my profile and you clearly don't care what I have to say.

Things that will make you think I'm awesome:
** I'm an indoor/outdoor girl. You can take me to do just about anything. I don't mind getting dirty with you (literally or figuratively) and I like getting pretty for you, too.
** The world does not come to a screeching halt if I'm having a bad hair day. That's what pony tails are for. My range is not limited to the length of my blow dryer cord.
** I'm smart and I have an opinion. I don't expect you to always agree with it, but I do want you to consider it.
** I'm sassy. I can even be bratty -- but I like it when you call me on it.
** I won't pester you during 'the game' with ignorant questions. I know when it's a good play, I know when it's a crummy call. I can discuss strategy and I know when to just shut up and cheer.
** I'm an excellent infielder and I can hit.
** I am supportive and an excellent teammate. I want you to be happy and successful and will do every reasonable thing, within my sphere of influence, to make it happen.
** I genuinely care about you and what you care about. If I don't understand it, I will try to learn. If I still don't understand, I will smile and nod and offer you a shoulder (?) massage.
** I can say "I'm sorry" and "I was wrong" without choking.... but if it's on Google, I will verify, first. (Oh how Iove Google in my pocket.)
** I am honest to a fault, but I try to be tactful and loving with my honesty.
** I am loyal and will always have your back.
** I don't think the world revolves around me (but it's ok if you think it does.)
** Chocolate chip cookies are my superpower. Ok, so maybe I can't save Metropolis with chocolate chip cookies (although, we don't know that for certain) but I am always very popular at a potluck.
** I have a sense of adventure and common sense... but lack a reliable sense of direction. (Thank you GPS.)
** Physical affection ROCKS! I love to be held by you and feel your breath on my skin. I enjoy tactful PDA, but don't demand it.
** I believe kissing is an art and art should be experienced every chance we get. Mmmmmm... kissing!
** Travel, art, history and culture feed my soul. (I'm an awesome travel companion!)
** Moms love me because they quickly see how great I am for their son.
** I love it that you tease me because you know I don't take myself too seriously.
** I have a naughty streak.
** I am open-minded to new things you'd like me to try (choose your context here) -- ok, so maybe not terribly adventurous in the area of food. I have some strict food rules: 1) No animals with less than two legs or more than four. 1) Flesh must be cooked. 3) Nothing that is commonly referred to as "guts."
** God did not paint me like a Disney princess or a Victoria's Secret model... He did, however, paint me like a renaissance masterpiece.
** I am a peacemaker, compromiser, harmony-lover.

I agree, chemistry is a must.

I value: Intelligence - stimulate me intellectually. Integrity - inspire me to be my best person. Intimacy: 'nuff said? Humor: laugh with me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Galavanting the globe, Rafting raging rivers, Meandering majestic mountains, Moseying through museums, Cavorting with my canine, Admiring art, Spectating sports, Conversing over coffee, Snuggling on the sofa with someone special, Love laughter, G'head- gimme a giggle
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being articulate ...
listening ...
letting people know what I love about them ...
I'm a great travel companion.
I make the BEST chocolate chip cookies!
I'm an excellent infielder and can throw as hard as some guys I know. (-looking for a team... anyone need a solid 1st or 3rd baseman?)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I don't have many 'favorites.' I enjoy a variety of things and my favorites change depending on my mood, but a sampling of my tastes might include:
Books: All Creatures Great and Small series by James Harriott, The Lord of the Rings, the Narnia books, Harry Potter, most by Jane Austin or Shakespeare...
Movies: LOTR, Braveheart, Schindler's List, the Passion of the Christ, Galaxy Quest, Anne of Green Gables, anything by Pixar and most animated Disney...
Shows: Criminal Minds, CSI, Friends reruns...
Music: 80's, classic rock, Contemporary Christian, country...
Food: Mexican, Italian..
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My relationship with Jesus.
Loving relationships (family/friends)
A noble purpose in life.
Music I can sing along to
Green Mountains
Ice cream
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My relationship with God, my relationship with friends/family, my job, current events, my future
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Professionally, and in the absence of a clear leader, I will step up and take the reins, however, I prefer someone who is generally take-charge in a relationship.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. are a Christian man who has his life together and has something to say. Starting an introduction with "Hey gorgeous" (especially when you have clearly not read my profile) does not impress me and you are less likely to get a response.

You are smart enough to recognize what a great catch I am. :-)

p.s. If you don't show a picture, it is unlikely that I will respond.