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a_better_man

29 / M / Gay / Available

Lexington, Kentucky

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Capricorn
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish

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I am a deep thinker, soulful, and artisitic.

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My Self-Summary

I consider myself more of a creative, intellectual person. I like to question things, and almost never accept anything at face value, not that I am a skeptic, I just like to get inside an equation so that I can understand.

I enjoy art in all it's forms, painting, writing, music, etc. I think living can be an art form, as there are just some people who live there lives in a way that is awe inspiring. I do believe that all things serve a purpose, and karma is something that we all have to deal with. All things have a purpose.

What I’m doing with my life

Currently, I work at amazon.com. Thinking about moving somewhere further south in hopes of finding my niche, with a better job. I eventually want to do advertising or PR. I do have a BA in speech communication, which at the moment I'm not doing anything with. Although it looks really nice on my desk ;)

I’m really good at

Tarot, listening, being headstrong, I've been told I am a good cook and I like to think I am a pretty good communicator.

The first things people usually notice about me

hard to say, probably either my personality or my eyes, which depending on the person are considered "beautiful," or "weird." They have these rings of color so they are sort of brownish gold in the center but move out in green, with a little grey or blue around the edges. Someobody called them rainbow eyes once.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

FOr the sake of space, and to save myself from developing cramping fingers, I'll give the abridged list : a)Density of Souls, anything by Anne Rice, A Catcher in the Rye, The Agony and the Ecstasy, anything by Charles de Lint, Harry Potter. b) Moulin Rouge, Big Fish, Cruel Intentions, Simply Irresistable, Practical Magic c) anything and everything...especially Robbie Williams, Third Eye Blind, Madonna, Lorenna McKennit, etc. d) Chinese is prolly my fav

The six things I could never do without

My family, Jill (my best girl friend, my Grace) my heart(cause it guides me, and oh yeah, keeps my blood circulating :)) , my brain ( I like to think too much, and I also like not having a labotomy, thanks), self expression, and money ('cause we live in a capitalist society)

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Love, my life (what it's been, and what it could be), Witchcraft, nothing at all.

On a typical Friday night I am

Probably hanging out with my friends, or just chillin' at home.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I cry like a baby everytime I watch a certain episode of Buffy the Vampire Slayer..."joyce will never have fruit punch again..."

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