I have a guy (adversecamber) whom I really love. I'm also very close to my roommate and best friend (PennPaul). I'm polyamorous (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyamory). I definitely have time to meet new people, and develop new intimate relationships, but that time is limited; I'd like to think that I could be a wonderful addition to someone's life if they're not specifically looking for more than I'm available to give.
I believe in kindness over rightness. I find that the only people I ever find myself writing off as "stupid" are people who are dogmatic in their knowledge to the point of not really being able to consider new information or perspectives. I'm kind of a relativist, but I think more than anything, I believe in nuance. I try not to be too afraid of contradicting myself, because I think that a lot of truth settles in contradiction. Also, sometimes I'm wrong.
I can be a somewhat abstract communicator. I love it when you like that!
I love to play. I revel in affection and love to give it to people that feel the same way. I could live most of my life either alone, or in some sort of cuddle puddle (anything in the middle makes me a little antsy to be honest).
People ask a lot about my preferred gender pronouns: I don't really have any. I identify as male bodied, and with a lot of characteristics culturally asigned to masculinity as well as feminity, so the androgyne label seems to fit. But I'm not very touchy about gender, and I'm very comfy in my body and expression. I think if there were gender neutral pronouns that felt natural to me within the language I would use them, but I have yet to find them (have any ideas?). I just hate the idea of being referred to as a plurality or an object, so other than that: we're cool.
I can be somewhat shy and aloof, but then at other times I'm feisty and puckish. If you treat me with warmth and respect, you're just about sure to get that back in spades.
So go on, say hello!
I'm also learning to tend bar.
I think I make a pretty good cocktail. Working on building my range and style...
Ya... oh, I'm a good dancer! I love to dance. Do you?
I NEED A BOOGIE BUDDY SO BAD!
That, or my clothes.
Maybe my hair. I don't really know.
An Actor Prepares-Stanislavsky (so much more than acting instruction), Giovanni's Room-Baldwin, Anything by-Wilde or Albee (The Goat is AWESOME), Harry Potter is my childhood, Ragtime-Doctorow, Oh, The Places You'll Go!-Seuss and The Little Prince-Antoine de Saint-Exupéry pretty much shaped the base of my personality, Tennessee Williams' later absurdist plays, The Art of Happiness-His Holiness the Dalai Lama and Cutler.
Hot Chip!!!! (I reeeeaaally like Hot Chip) Iron and Wine, The Dirty Projectors, Regina Spektor, Feist, TV on the Radio, Ken Ishi, Rihanna (has brainwashed me), Little Dragon, Janelle Monae, The Books, Aphex Twin, The Police, The Beach Boys, Otis Redding, Queens of the Stone Age, Bob Dylan, Animal Collective of course, Beats Antique, Rage Against the Machine, Death Cab and The Postal Service (ya, I said it), Lauryn Hill
and the musical list:
Hello Again-Michael John LaChuisa (I groan in admiration), The Last Five Years-JRB, Caroline, Or Change-Kushner and Tesori, ,Parade-JRB, On the Town-Bernstein and Comden & Green or anything Bernstein has anything to do with. I'm also strting to like Weill quite a bit, I like Street Scene. Spring Awakening-Sheik, Ragtime-Flaherty and Ahrens
I think you get the point.
I'm generally eating mostly for nutrients or mostly for comfort. So like, sauteed kale, and then Ben and Jerry's Core flavor ice cream.
I love French pastries; CROISSANTS!
salmon, duck, dried fruit, wine, and Belgian beer
Tennessee Sour Mash
I'm really on the front end of my movie exploration, but I love Me and You and Everyone We Know and I really love Chaplin. Anything by Chaplin. OMG The Circus. Kinda digging Keaton too. I thought College was hilarious. Life of Pi is a favorite, John Cameron Mitchel (though what I really love him for is the cast recording of Hello Again. Brilliant!) , Also:
Punch Drunk Love, East of Eden, My Beautiful Laundrette, Her is just like, the prettiest, Twelve Years a Slave is a new favorite, Trainspotting, Giant, Blancanieves and Who Are You Polly Magoo? has been invading my dreams so I guess it must have made an impact. And, I think Bridesmaids is my favorite comedic talkie.
The anxiety of identifying with oppressed groups, and the stigma that goes with any expression of knowledge of being oppressed. And like, how to balance my political ideas with my humanist values.
What the people walking by are thinking about or where they're coming from/going to, who they're coming from/going to. What those people are wearing and why that might be.
How to be happy.
Why I can't get myself to talk to that interesting looking person over there.
How to get that person to come talk to me.
How to prioritize.
The human soul, its possible existence, whether or not it's possible to prove scientifically...
I dunno. Depends.
I don't hide much. If you want to know something, ask me.
If you're the techno-glam-soul producer collaborator of my dreams...
If you find my self summary more charming and quirky than awkward and obtuse.
If you consider yourself to be a pragmatist.
I'm definitely welcoming new friends, so please don't be afraid to say hello if you think we'd get along well.