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23 • San Francisco, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 18–99
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Apr 20
- 6′ 2″ (1.88m)
- Body type
- Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
I'm introverted, cautious, intentional, calculated; adventurous, compassionate, spontaneous, and creative. I'm extremely critical of the forces and institutions that shape society, while recognizing my position as benefiting from many of them. I'm inquisitive and have a drive to really understand how everything fits together - and then equally how to fuck it all up.
In contrast to grappling with abstract questions at a societal level, I also greatly enjoy playing with ideas and concepts contained in a closed system. I have a great love of games, primarily of the video and board varieties. I feel a compulsion to understand exactly how the mechanics work and will commit a quite ridiculous amount of time to really studying a game and how everything works together. This is true in a broader sense as well; while my knowledge base isn't terrible wide - it's almost embarrassingly deep in the few things I take interest it.
Oh, and I'm an INTP for folks that like MBTI. (Typology is another topic I find fascinating)
Movies: Memento, Requiem for a Dream, Lord of the Rings, Harry Potters, Miyazaki films, Perks of Being a Wall Flower, Pitch Perfect, The Truman Show, The Way Way Back
Shows: Buffy, Parks and Rec, Arrested Development, Six Feet Under, Game of Thrones, Community, Avatar and Korra, Please Like Me...various other shows too, I tend to enjoy TV more than movies for some odd reason.
Music: CHVRCHES, Purity Ring, St. Vincent, The XX, The Antlers, M83, Crystal Castles, Hot Chip, Sleigh Bells, Cut Copy, Beach House, Radiohead, lots of other stuff.
Video Games: Mostly RPGs/Strategy. Fire Emblem, Xenoblade Chronicles, Golden Sun, Dragon Age, Pokemon, Final Fantasy Tactics, Advance Wars, Smash Bros., FTL, random indie games I purchased during steam sales.
1 The Gender Binary
2 Living in a very rural, conservative, religious, Midwestern farming community
3 Random Number Generators
4 The Patriarchy
5 Institutionalized racism
- if you want to get a drink, go dancing, or just meet for coffee!
- if you enjoy video games and want to play or talk about them!
- if you just want to talk to someone new and have a conversation about anything!
- if you're interested in any of the above and making out after/during/before them!
Really, you've already gotten this far, you might as well just message me. Plus I love getting messages!
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