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a_regular_isaac
33 / M / straight / Single
Oakland, California
The Skinny
- Last Online
- Join Date
- Ethnicity
- Asian
- Height
- 5' 9" (1.75m).
- Body Type
- Athletic
- Looking For
- New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
- Smokes
- No
- Drinks
- Sometimes
- Drugs
- —
- Religion
- Other
- Sign
- —
- Education
- Graduated from college/university
- Job
- Science / Tech / Engineering
- Income
- $100,000–$150,000
- Kids
- —
- Pets
- —
- Languages
- English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), French (Poorly)
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Your Notes
Edit your notesI am quite musical, kinda silly, and cynically idealistic.
My Self-Summary
- I'm both logical and creative, self-amused and happy around most people
- I'm a semi-pro musician in the Bay Area music scene--I will happily figure out and play your favorite pop songs on the spot for a minimal bribe ( suggestion: cupcakes )
- I know how to use slightly-outrageous, playfully-cynical humor to elicit laughter
- My work may one day change nature as we know it
- It's been said you should never trust a man who doesn't dance--you can trust me
- I have my life together and in order, but will regularly take time out to reflect on its wondrousness/inscrutability/ultimate insignificance
- I'm a great eating partner. I've literally been to hundreds of Bay Area restaurants, and my favorite cuisines are all of them, each of which I like a lot
- I'm surprisingly athletic
- I'm not really motivated by money, status, or power, but a little of each can be nice
What I’m doing with my life
I’m really good at
- jazz / latin piano, groove and improvisation
- making crazy analogies that actually make sense after a few seconds
- modulating between "down-to-earth" and "in-the-clouds"
- staying up on society and the world, technology and sociological trends
- keeping a secret
- dancing with a woman, in a way that makes us both smirk with satisfaction
- using my hands to give pleasure ( I can give a shiatsu massage, and am very sensitive to touch )
I'm not so good at:
- driving my very first stick-shift car!
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Books: Raymond Carver, Anton Chekhov, Waiting For Godot, TS Eliot, Emerson, Chuang-tze, The Corporation, Gig, Moneyball, Freakonomics, David Sedaris ( esp. in audiobook form ). To stay informed, salon.com, the Economist, and nytimes.com are staples, plus NPR/PBS
Movies/TV: anything that leaves me speechless--like Lost In Translation, Annie Hall, Shawshank Redemption, Kurosawa, Wong Kar Wai, Clint Eastwood--or laughing uncontrollably--Ali G, The Office ( British esp. ), Curb Your Enthusiasm, 30 Rock and stand up comic Louis CK
The six things I could never do without
- good eats
- dancing
- friends I can share a belly laugh and priceless memories with
- getting into a flow / connection
- gaining deeper understanding
I spend a lot of time thinking about
- how the world works
- music, from many angles
- silly things that happened during the day, or even three years ago
- reminding myself to focus in the moment, because I can get carried away