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aa_crosse

40 / M / straight / Single

Portland, Oregon

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 2" (1.87m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Aries but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am sugar-coated, sticky, and adept.

My Self-Summary

Though I may seem contradictory, the pieces of me fit together well and make sense (at least to me). As the first of my family to go to college, I am a mix of blue collar and my own artistic eccentricities, though I do not claim to be anything special. I am more a dabbler in drawing, music and writing, though I draw more than I write or play music these day. Moreover, I can be quiet at times but I can also warm up and be charming and dryly humorous (not that I don't also appreciate and sometimes engage in the low-brow too). Shy though I might seem at first, given time, I'm something else -- be it shooting the breeze over drinks or coffee, the occasional camping trip, or relating some mad project I am working on in the wee hours of the night. Many of commented that though I might seem cynical or sarcastic, underneath I am sweet and hopeful.

What I’m doing with my life

When not buying used books for a local independent bookstore, I'm working working on some comics project, writing or fiddling about on my guitar. I work to live and try to spend my time working on what gives me satisfaction, be it writing an essay or a song or just a long walk observing the whacked out world around me. Though I may not necessarily know where I am going, I appreciate the tangents that lead there. What that could be might include making a construction paper diorama of a bunny, working on a longer graphic fiction piece or bbqing in the backyard while the cat chases a mouse and ineptly loses it.

I’m really good at

Observing details, coming up with Rube Goldberg-like schemes, being amusing, improvising verse, fighting off invading racoons with brooms, making art with sharpies, bubble wrap and styrofoam, spit-takes, pratfalls and making noise. Lately I have been making dioramas occasionally. I can also cook when I put my mind to it.

The first things people usually notice about me

My height, my blue eyes, my smirk, quizzical expression on my face, intently doing something . . .

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I will listen to anything and give any book a chance (though I might not finish it). I don't someone's taste against them, whatever they like an always interesting collage of who they are.

Writers: Stacey Levine, Charles D'Ambrosio, Jonathan Swift, Chris Adrian, etc

Music: Half Japanese, LAFMS, Kinks, Moondog, Dodos, Killdozer, Shellac, Troggs, Screamin' Mee-Mees, Albery Ayler, Hank Williams, Charley Patton, Vaselines, etc.

Movies: The Third Man, The Big Sleep, Praise, The Dark Backward, Tex Avery animation, Salesman, etc

Food: Mexican, Thai, Chinese, Ahmurican, etc.

but then it's not necessarily about what you like but how you absorb it.

The six things I could never do without

Music, my evil cat, something to write or draw with and something to do it on, my guitar, and coffee.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

how to draw a bunny, two chords or three?, fishing my cat out of the bathtub, should i price the book at $15,000, what rhymes with "plutonium" and a thousand other bits and pieces of cranial miscellany.

On a typical Friday night I am

seeing a band, having a drink, riding my bike, or at home with my feet up listening to whatever music is striking my fancy at the moment, drawing, sitting on the back porch reading, wrestling with an art project, or whatever else has risen from the depths of my head.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I am both eccentric and normal at the same time.

You should message me if

You are semi-entertaining, willing to have a conversation filled with tangents and wordplay, or because you feel weirdly compelled to do so (the reason undetermined). I'm interested in meeting women who have a sense of humor and have their own preoccupations, but are willing to share them and be open to the interests of others. Communication is always important.