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28 Vancouver, British Columbia, CA Woman, Non-binary, Genderfluid, Genderqueer

Woman, Non-binary, Genderfluid, Genderqueer

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 24-36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:10pm
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Space camp
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
Has cats
English (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Realtree camo ductape.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Nerding out about movement and herbal medicine, training in russian martial arts, working on undermining institutions of domination, spending time with little people, not spending enough time out of town, sometimes playing with horses, going on epic "vacations" making soup, working on a farm or at a cemetery or making medicine for sick friends.
"having a gender crisis"
Feeling overwhelmed by the totality.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
" That kind of sketchy dangerous thing no one else wants to deal with"
making food. digging up lysichiton. learning quickly. caring for things. staying calm during crisis (but losing my shit the rest of the time) listening. attracting people who need help. baking with out wheat or other grains. arm locks. not tapping out. crashing my bike.
Being a good date.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
"that i'm a walking disaster"
Also i've been told that i walk with a swagger
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Meat and vegetables
Lucinda Williams, Remains of the day, PS Elliot, "dark pretty stuff" Country, Black metal, Strange Weather, sangre de muerdago, Liz Phair, John Prine, Bryan Hartley, Oliver Schroer, One hundred Dollars, Jessy Bell Smith, Rae Spoon, Robyn, Beyonce, 90s booty jams...etc.
Books: Nerd shit. Books about herbs, bodies/pathologies, trauma, some theory and fiction.
F.Perlman, Ursula K Leguin, Barry Lopez, Leslie Marmon Silco, Patrick Califia, Peter Levine, ...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
the night sky
relationship to other living things
cold water
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Bodies, plants, trauma, self defense, and how these things relate to each other.
How people often think I'm hitting on them when I'm really really not.
How to reconcile living in the city with my desire for the city to exist less, gender and my relationship to it, total freedom,
" should I use my one day off to go on a road trip or should I do laundry?"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
no typical friday night. maybe having beers at the shop, or at a show, or having dinner with friends, sitting on top of a piano singing along to country songs, "doing bro shit", adventuring new places in town, camping, or just reading in my room with my cat, or sitting by a wood stove in a cabin somewhere or making 200 tacos for a catering gig..... or something totally else.
... Or I'm exhausted from working too much or I'm still working.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i'm not 5'7. i'm like, 5'6 and a half.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like face to face interactions better than computers.
You want to go somewhere outside!
You know me from real life and want to make fun of me for using the internet.
You're hella queer and kinky and wanna have dates
You live in somewhere rural and think we have something in common.
You think you have an idea of what i mean by "the totality"
You are queer/have a gender analysis as well as a critique of identity politics
You want to take me kayaking or climbing