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- Ages 24–36
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Today – 6:44am
- Open relationship
- Relationship Type
- Mostly non-monogamous
- 5' 7" (1.70m)
- Body Type
- Space camp
- Wants kids
- Has cats
- English (Somewhat)
Nerding out about movement and herbal medicine, training in russian martial arts, working on undermining institutions of domination, spending time with little people, not spending enough time out of town, sometimes playing with horses, going on epic "vacations" making soup, working on a farm or at a cemetery or making medicine for sick friends.
"having a gender crisis"
Feeling overwhelmed by the totality.
making food. digging up lysichiton. learning quickly. caring for things. staying calm during crisis (but losing my shit the rest of the time) listening. attracting people who need help. baking with out wheat or other grains. arm locks. not tapping out. crashing my bike.
Being a good date.
Also i've been told that i walk with a swagger
Lucinda Williams, Remains of the day, PS Elliot, "dark pretty stuff" Country, Black metal, Strange Weather, sangre de muerdago, Liz Phair, John Prine, Bryan Hartley, Oliver Schroer, One hundred Dollars, Jessy Bell Smith, Rae Spoon, Robyn, Beyonce, 90s booty jams...etc.
Books: Nerd shit. Books about herbs, bodies/pathologies, trauma, some theory and fiction.
F.Perlman, Ursula K Leguin, Barry Lopez, Leslie Marmon Silco, Patrick Califia, Peter Levine, ...
the night sky
relationship to other living things
... Or I'mexhausted from working too much or I'm still working.
You want to go somewhere outside!
You know me from real life and want to make fun of me for using the internet.
You're hella queer and kinky and wanna have dates
You live in somewhere rural and think we have something in common.
You think you have an idea of what i mean by "the totality"
You are queer/have a gender analysis as well as a critique of identity politics
You want to take me kayaking or climbing
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