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I’m looking for
- Ages 24–36
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Today – 1:52pm
- 5′ 7″ (1.70m)
- Body type
- Mostly other
- Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from space camp
- Less than $20,000
- Open relationship
- Mostly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
- Likes dogs and has cats
- English (Okay)
Nerding out about movement and herbal medicine, training in russian martial arts, working on undermining institutions of domination, spending time with little people, not spending enough time out of town, sometimes playing with horses, going on epic "vacations" making soup, working on a farm or at a cemetery or making medicine for sick friends.
"having a gender crisis"
Feeling overwhelmed by the totality.
Being a good date.
Lucinda Williams, Remains of the day, PS Elliot, "dark pretty stuff" Country, Black metal, Strange Weather, sangre de muerdago, Liz Phair, John Prine, Bryan Hartley, Oliver Schroer, One hundred Dollars, Jessy Bell Smith, Rae Spoon, Robyn, Beyonce, 90s booty jams...etc.
Books: Nerd shit. Books about herbs, bodies/pathologies, trauma, some theory and fiction.
F.Perlman, Ursula K Leguin, Barry Lopez, Leslie Marmon Silco, Patrick Califia, Peter Levine, ...
the night sky
relationship to other living things
You want to go somewhere outside!
You know me from real life and want to make fun of me for using the internet.
You're hella queer and kinky and wanna have dates
You live on Vancouver Island and think we have something in common.
You think you have an idea of what i mean by "the totality"
You are queer/have a gender analysis as well as a critique of identity politics
You want to take me kayaking or climbing
*Honestly, I'm not super interested in romance right now, especially with cis dudes, so maybe don't message me if you're some cis dude who's trying to date girls or something. Thats not me.
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