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42 M Palo Alto, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:33am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Indonesian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Not fashion conscious, but I'm not a slob. I clean up very well, but often don't think about it much. I may come across as aloof, but maybe a passing glance at my unexpectedly intense hazel-greenish eyes happens occasionally. Maybe a woman might notice me, if they are the observant type, and like the lean, sensitive and thoughtful type. I believe I, in the confidence of my own personality though not necessarily my social skills, fade and blend into the background. I'm an observer, but can converse. I don't often make a scene, and I'm under the impression that the hoi poloi don't necessarily notice when I walk into a room. That's fine, it's not in my nature to swagger or be be boisterously extroverted, and I (for one) have put behind the subtle societal pressures of the cultural expectations to be loud when I don't feel like it, or to chatter when I have little of importance to say. (Though, when nervous or excited, I can babble on a bit. Charmingly so, I hope.)

I consider my self reticent and shy, though average folks in my life at work and play don't believe this self-definition. On the introverted side, but not at all a shadow. I am an extremely patient person, an intellectual in variety of interests, and a generally self-aware and evaluative person.

The type of woman I'm attracted to is intelligent, comfortable with herself, strong-willed, forgiving, and mentally flexible. My interests include all sciences, Sci-fi, Nature, Travel, Hiking, Books, Current Events, Classical Music, Biology and pretty much anything. I have an odd, quirky sense of humor, often amusing myself more often than others. Basically I like people that are curious and always learning. Being non-religious and having liberal politics are musts.

And finally...I'm a sucker for scientists. A woman in pin-striped pants also gives me pause. Oh, and gummy bears are my kryptonite. Yum!
What I’m doing with my life
Work at an academic Cardiovascular Institute, volunteering at a children's hospital, hanging out with friends, reading and wandering libraries, playing with my niece and nephew, playing board-games when I get a chance. Looking for someone to hang-out with...;) I'd like to get that last one off the list.
I’m really good at
Reading, editing, listening, pool and smarty-pants conversations.
The first things people usually notice about me
Hm. I've heard eyes; but I always think most people notice how lean I am...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Ah, this is more first date topics! So many choices...
The six things I could never do without
I'm too literal for this question. I can do without much of anything but the biological do most folks if they really think about it seriously.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Science, friends, family, work, bioethics, comics and a good read.
On a typical Friday night I am
Volunteering. I'm into my seventh year of doing this so it's quite ingrained in my schedule. Still, I'm usually off by 8 p.m. so I'm game to do stuff afterwards. But know I'm taking classes, I might have to change this up a bit.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I collect comic books...graphic literature I mean! Oh, and I love anime. Ponyo is great!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're a scientist, you somehow read this WHOLE thing and are still curious, you're a world-traveler, you're looking for a good conversation, you know what you want (and it isn't perfection, but a darn great journey); you have a pair of pin-striped pants. :)