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23 Chicago, IL Woman, Androgynous, Genderfluid, Genderqueer, Non-binary

Woman, Androgynous, Genderfluid, Genderqueer, Non-binary

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  • Ages 21–34
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
Trying to quit
Graduated from space camp
Likes dogs and has cats
My self-summary
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Amateur painter, writer, musician, photographer. All things I enjoy that I never take seriously.

I'm picky and get bored easily. Interested in the interesting.


Although sometimes I toy with the idea of exclusively seeing someone who makes me feel like I want to be taken seriously. Seeing someone who I can take seriously. I haven't found that yet. Once, maybe, but he rejected my love and I've been trying real hard to keep from being jaded. Don't be the next asshole in my life. I could potentially be looking for something real for the first time ever. Be that - be the first real thing.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Work too many hours at a warehouse for a Chicago retail company. Basically, I lift boxes 50 hours a week.

On my down time I'm smoking weed and painting while Friends is on in the background.

Currently growing out an undercut. I'm almost there.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being self-aware
Parallel parking
Dressing myself
Using emojis

I'm really bad at:
Getting back to you
Saying "no" to junk food
Book smarts
Holding back my bluntness
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My imperfect smile, my abrasive personality, and my sharp tongue.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Romantic comedies are my favorite. What can I say, I love love stories.

We (my roommates and I) have a broad VHS collection. Currently and forever expanding.

OITNB, Parks and Rec, SVU, PLL, anything that can be shortened or abbreviated.

Drake is my homie.

Also into:
FKA Twigs, Kanye, Crystal Castles, James Blake, Beyonce, Carole King, Justin Timberlake, Flume, Schoolboy Q, Tegan and Sara, Outkast, Joie De Vivre, Phantogram, Future, The Smiths, Kalela, Kendrick Lamar, Braid, My Bloody Valentine, The Weeknd, Feist, Cat Power, Best Coast, Surfer Blood, Le1f, Little Dragon, Sylvan Esso, Childish Hambino, so on.

Had this conversation on food today:
Top 3 favorite foods
- Steak tacos, with sour cream, cheese, lettuce, onion, and cilantro. Rice and beans and chips and guacamole to go with.

- Pizza. Typically thin, semi crunchy crust. Pepperoni, green peppers, and bacon or spinach and chicken. Sprinkle with the fixins.

- Classic breakfast meal, specifically when hungover. Two over-medium peppered eggs, hash browns, bacon, buttered wheat toast.

My favorite beverage is water. I do enjoy stouts, wheat beers, and Fireball Whiskey.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Unconditional love
- My self-worth
- Vulnerability/transparency

Note: I had a dream that the Universe told me to be more vulnerable and transparent to get what I truly want out of life. It works.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Is it too cliché to say "too many things"?

Cuz it's true. I don't have an attention span.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
up for anything/figuring out what to do.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have hairy armpits. And I have a tattoo around the left one that says "LONG HAIR DON'T CARE". And I don't really give a fuck about how grossed out you are.
You should message me if
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You're willing to go through a journey with as many ups and downs as The Grand Canyon.