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44 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 34–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:53pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Why are we here? Presumably to find a special someone. Could that be you? Friendships are important and whomever I'm with, needs to be my best friend too. Still reading? Please read on.

I love to be active: Aikido, snowboarding, cycling, rockclimbing, running, swimming and more. I cook (and clean too). Deep conversations and random laughter are staples.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work in Silicon Valley. I cook most nights. I workout every chance I get. I'm a 1/2 time dad to two great kids. I listen to a lot of NPR (listener member).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding ways to get things done.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't know how to answer this. When we meet, please tell me!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Princess Bride. Tampopo. Lost In Translation. Eat, Drink, Man, Woman. Enchanted. Studio Ghibli movies. Jason Bourne series (not the latest one). Lord of the Rings Trilogy. Aliens. Pitch Perfect. Avatar.

Les Miserables (musical and movie). Wicked. Phantom of the Opera. Cirque du Soleil.

Prime rib. Wok veggies. Sushi/sashimi. Ramen. Pho. Fuji apples. Blood Oranges. Grapes. Roast duck. Dim sum. Lambsicles. Dumplings.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. iPhone
2. KQED Radio/NPR
3. A wok
4. Warm socks
5. Great food
6. Being active
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How much time people spend thinking about what to put here.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Unwinding from the week. Cooking something yummy. Chilling with some friends. Maybe catching a movie. It varies quite a bit.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm less private in person??
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like waking up early on weekends to go do something active and fun. You're looking to meet someone who's seen life's ups and downs and have concluded the glass is still mostly full. You want to grab a beverage or dessert and get to know each other over laughs.