tl;dr = ISFJ for those interested in that stuff.
Hi. I’m Kevin. I picked a terrible username. I'm sorry! I don't know what I was thinking!
I’m a nerd, but probably only fit some of the stereotype. I know you might think it’s not politically correct to label someone under a stereotype, but it’s fine. They exist for a reason. It gives you a good general idea of who I am. I have my anti-social moments - mostly due to my poor ability to navigate large social gatherings, but I generally enjoy talking to people. Plus, I think most of us could relate to wanting some alone time every now and then.
Outside of this stereotype, though, I’m a caring person. I approach each person for who they are. I am not here to make fun of your life choices or weaknesses. I am here to treat you like someone who deserves to be listened to and cared for. One of the easiest things you can do is actively listen to someone. People like to talk and they also are just looking for reassurance that their way of life is just as valid as anyone else’s. I will most likely provide that validation.
I seem to be the go-to person for if you want a simple logical answer. I’m not devoid of emotions - far from it, but I don’t let them come into play during some decisions. I always look at both sides of every story and put myself in each person’s shoes. I look at the long term outcome over the short. The answer is often one you already knew, but wanted to hear it from someone else.
I am pretty introspective at times and always try to be aware of my impact on others. This is to a fault as I can go out of my way to avoid a negative impact.
I probably favor indoor activities slightly more than outdoor ones. I enjoy traveling, but don’t do it often enough. I am usually more excited at all the new places to eat, than the actual event.
My patience level is nearly unlimited - which is good in my line of work. But it also helps me deal with a lot of other problems life tries to throw at you.
At the end of the day, I just like to wind down and play some videogames and act goofy if I’m entertaining friends.