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abbeysurdist

27 / F / gay / Single

Alexandria, Virginia

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Kids
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am quixotic, hilarious, and intuitive.

My Self-Summary

Certain adaptations of Alice in Wonderland force the character of Alice into pastiche of Dorothy from the Oz books; but this is errneous as Alice is inquistitive and an explorer of her surroundings to no end except that dictated by dream logic, whereas Dorothy has the clear goal of returning home. Both of these have been used as metaphors for the trasition from childhood to womanhood, but both were in fact creations of authors who were seeking to satirize the politics and culture of their particular time and place. The point is at the end of the day Dorothy wants to return home to some farm in Kansas even though she's surrounded by gay lions and great footwear, but Alice wants to hang around and discuss poetry with crazy people in a garden.

I'm with Alice.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm working and mentally wandering.

I’m really good at

Sneaking reading material anywhere, remembering superhero continuity, being inappropriate.

The first things people usually notice about me

Curly hair and whatever the hell I just said.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Read: Cat's Eye by Atwood, God of Small Things by Roy, and Sula by Morrison. Other than that; I'll read any modernist poetry as well as Wilde, Whitman, Dickinson, Ginsberg and Ferlinghetti. Big comic book nerd too (grant morrison, alan moore, gail simone, joann safer, neil gaiman, dc and marvel in the 70's and 80's, a weakness for early 90's in both as well).

Watch:

Movies: Psycho Beach Party, Big Lebowski, Donnie Darko, Dr. Strangelove, Bound, Royal Tenenbaums, Sense and Sensibilty, In the Company of Wolves, Serial Mom, But I'm a Cheerleader, Barbarella, Army of Darkness

TV:
Simpsons seasons 4-10, Futurama, Buffy, The Prisoner, X-Files, Xena Warrior Princess, Adventures of Brisco County Jr, Both Offices, 30 Rock, Golden Girls, Arrested Development, Lost, My So-Called Life, Twin Peaks

Listen: David Bowie, Pixies, Tori Amos, Talking Heads, Magnetic Fields, Ditty Bops, MIA, the BLOW, Laura Viers, Santigold

The six things I could never do without

An animal companion
Decent wine
Text to read
A cardigan
Eyeliner
Someone to rant with

On a typical Friday night I am

Watching a bad movie with a buddy and plotting adventures or settling in for a bath and a drink with a book I don't mind getting damp.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

The first thing I notice about a person is their lips, followed by their eyes.

You should message me if

You want to catch a movie or exhibit or try something new.