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31 / M / straight / Single

New York, New York

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I am voracious, nimble, and deft.

My Self-Summary

I like words and their proper and improper uses.
I love that any of us are crazy enough to want to write or make movies or music for a living.
I endorse scrabble and chess.
I like it when people are genuinely kind to each other. Sue me.
I like the Fall (the season not the theological event).
I love cats. I don't have one now but there was a dignified feline named Tommy Aloysius that was a member of my family for fifteen years.
I am admittedly a bit of a moody person from time to time but really quite genuinely nice, actually.
Although I study film these days, my background is in classical piano and dirty rock n roll guitar.
I love the blues, bluegrass, and Tell Mama (ETTA JAMES!)
I can easily become haunted by places, or memories.

What I’m doing with my life

film mfa (writing, directing)

I’m really good at

Beethoven piano sonatas and Shostakovich preludes and fugues. The blues. Dirty messy guitar riffs. Chess trivia. Driving for hours without complaint on roadtrips.

The first things people usually notice about me

I look pissed off but I'm not actually!

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

the magnetic fields, the rolling stones, belle and sebastian, radiohead, the beach boys, etta james, guns n roses, the who, the kinks, led zeppelin, various relatively good indie bands, various ridiculously fun cock rock bands, lots of classical music (especially beethoven, schubert, chopin, brahms, and shostakovich)

igby goes down, ghostbusters, the life aquatic, a fish called wanda, y tu mama tambien, mulholland drive, boogie nights, wonder boys, buffalo '66, rififi, stardust memories, mean streets, etc

my favorite writers are probably Nabokov, Raymond Chandler, Faulkner, Joyce, TS Eliot, Dostoyevsky, Tolkien, Blake, Dickens, David Foster Wallace (his non-fiction mainly),