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abelian0

31 / M / Gay / Single

San Francisco, California

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:07pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), LISP (Poorly), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm very driven, and helped along with my dreams by amazing friends and family. At the same time, I'm very easygoing when it comes to my personal life and tend to be calm and supportive. I'm also very curious by nature, and I love discovering new things (like the stuff you're interested in). I read. A lot. I would like to think I'm funny, and friends would agree to various degrees. My sense of humor's best captured by my movie choices, if you're trying to get hints.
What I’m doing with my life
I've worked in finance for a bit, including positions at a hedge fund, a private equity firm, an investment bank and an institutional brokerage. I then took a Director role at a consulting firm, and am now COO for TravelLabs.
I’m really good at
If there's a word for me, it's analytical. I was a math major before I decided being a professor wasn't all it's cracked up to be. So I tend to give very good advice to my friends, and tend to deal with life's bumps well. On the other hand, I don't really understand highly emotive people.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Atlas Shrugged by Ayn Rand, The Cyberiad by Stanislaw Lem, In Search of Lost Time by Marcel Proust, Foucault's Pendulum by Umberto Eco, The Foundation series by Isaac Asimov, The Road to Serfdom by Friedrich von Hayek

Movies: Adaptation, Dangerous Liasons, Tampopo, Pulp Fiction, Four Rooms (last vignette), The Royal Tenenbaums/The Life Aquatic

Music: TV on the Radio, The Flaming Lips, Beach House, The Talking Heads, Interpol, Wilco, The Knife, David Bowie

Food: My favorite restaurant is Dry Creek Kitchen in Healdsburg.
The six things I could never do without
- Interesting work
- Supportive friends and family
- Good music
- Good books
- A computer/internet connection
- A car
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I've recently been obsessing over nutrition and diet - I'm the kind of guy who builds Excel spreadsheets, so I have a well-developed model for meal plans now.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 21–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends