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abi-cat

36 F Auckland, New Zealand

My Details

Last Online
Apr 5
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.61m)
Body Type
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Italian (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
i like punctuation (semi-colons are the hottest)- especially hanging punctuation, tango, alliteration, metaphors, zombies, alphabetizing things, researching things, cars, writing notes, labelling things, long baths, categorising things, chilli chocolate, salt chocolate, cross-referencing things, insects, horses, children, cooking, eating, moving furniture around, talking to my cats, talking to strangers, drinking in the sun, watching movies, reading in bed, making an 80's pop disco on you tube and getting drunk while singing along loudly, op-shopping, buying underwear, buying perfume, buying homewares, long car rides, going to the library, going to the movies in the middle of the day when no one else is there, grocery shopping, putting the groceries away, learning about plants- especially herbs, smelling flowers, making daisy chains, walking in the moonlight, kicking up autumn leaves, swimming, and dreaming about flying...*

when i grow up i want to have a hobby farm, with chickens, a horse, a great big vege and herb garden, a couple of dogs, a whole bunch of cats, a couple of kids and, hopefully one day, a great husband...

I am a bookworm, a domestic goddess, and a bit of a bar-fly

(*this is not a comprehensive list)
I’m really good at
* finding four leaf clovers

* befriending strangers

* tidying/ organizing/ packing things. like a suitcase. a fridge. maybe a drawer

* being still (except when i have wet nail polish...)

* reading maps (ab-nav to the rescue!)

* befriending animals

* cooking

* accidentally injuring myself

THINGS I'M REALLY BAD AT:

* time management

* staying awake in cars (or buses, trains, planes, boats... you name it, i nap in it once it starts to move.)

* confrontation

* speech making

* tanning

* remembering details

* walking on stairs
The first things people usually notice about me
my smile (well, that`s what they tell me anyway...) and my eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
.BOOKS; i love reading, almost always have a few on the go at once... my favourite authors are orson scott card, the late, great kurt vonnegut, anthony bourdain, neil gaiman, jasper fforde, chuck palahniuk, ray bradbury, john wyndam and tom robbins, i also really like the dexter books, the his dark materials trilogy, the forest of hands and teeth trilogy, and enjoy a bit of jeremy clarkson on occasion too... holy crap how good is a song of ice and fire? and loving the hunger games too. right now i'm in a bit of a swedish crime buzz, with lars keplar and camilla lackberg leading the pack; and recent additions to the favourites list are jennifer mcmahon, and tana french...

.MOVIES; my all-time favourite movie is natural born killers- it`s so romantic! i generally like horror best, things with a bit of a twist, but do enjoy a good trashy rom com too! i really like the city of lost children, sin city, logan's run, the notebook, v for vendetta, boondock saints, the matador, mr nobody...

.TV; dr who, wwe raw, pulp sport, home and away, top gear, drawn together, dexter, happy tree friends, grey's anatomy, house, popular, lost, torchwood, firefly, carnivale, the mentalist, dollhouse, himym, reality shows featuring pretty people making fools of themselves, invader zim, grand designs, how i met your mother... latest favourites are american horror story, game of thrones, revenge, the mindy project and hannibal.

.as for music, my all-time favourite band is depeche mode. i mainly like rock and 80`s pop... i generally prefer compilations, and have been listening to a lot of ani di franco, leonard cohen, transvision vamp, iron maiden, and james lately... new favourite song: "anything anything" by dramarama- <3 new favourite band: dead man's bones THIS JUST IN: i have a new new favourite band, steel panther. been listening to lots of bat for lashes and the national lately too. and i have this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a9MgoRIXEqc pretty much on repeat right now...

.foods; anything cooked with skill and passion,especially asian or italian... not fish though, i don`t like seafood. i love cake, asparagus, cheese, vanilla things, salami, olives, custard, salted caramel, avocado, rare steak, mascarpone, blueberries...

.favourite artists; bruce knox (www.fucktheweak.com' target='_blank'>www.fucktheweak.com">www.fucktheweak.com) and (www.desecrationism.com)- so dark, so twisted, so beautiful... audrey kawasaki (www.audrey-kawasaki.com); james jean (www.jamesjean.com/); kit williams, who is this crazy eyed hippy who does incredibly beautiful paintings and things with wood (try www.bunnyears.net/kitwilliams/); charles rennie macintosh; misery (www.miseryland.co.nz); and elliot stewart (try http://www.thetattooedheart.net/article.asp?id=34&art=94); edward gorey; actually this section really needs to be added to! there are so many amazing ones, graffiti artists, painters, photographers, sculptors, 'installers'....

.internet; www.xombified.com by james farr... dirge is my hero! also yugop.com, www.asofterworld.com, www.samorost.net/samorost1/ and samorost2 (amazing), www.specialdefects.com/v2/, www.postsecret.com and http://princess-rachael3.xanga.com/; hyperboleandahalf.blogspot.com; theoatmeal.com; pbfcomics.com; http://www.soberinanightclub.com;
The six things I could never do without
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books
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love
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sleep
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nature
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city
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solitude
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I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to survive the zombie apocalypse- my house is a logistical nightmare; how i'd design and decorate my dream house; the urban farm i wish i could have when i grow up- what animals i want, where i'd put the orchard and how much room i'd need for a horse; new tattoos; redecorating and reopening my favourite bar; what books i want to find next; how to make my gorgeous flat even better and what flowers and veges i would like to have in the garden; and falling in love, of course...
On a typical Friday night I am
you can usually find me at home, in my jammies, sometimes drinking, sometimes watching movies, sometimes reading... i like having friends over for a few drinks (but don't always change out of jammies) and only sometimes go out these days. i'm just as likely to be out on a monday as a friday night- not working regular hours means i don't have to cram my fun into a set night...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i alphabetize my spices...

i sometimes laugh in my sleep...

i still have my "blanky" which is called yellow. and is blue.

i have a weakness for blue`s clues... hell, i AM a blue's clue!
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
man, why shouldn't you message me??