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abi-cat

37 Auckland, New Zealand Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:42am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.61m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Italian (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly), Portuguese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a bookworm, a domestic goddess, and never have tidy hair...

i like punctuation (semi-colons are the hottest)- especially hanging punctuation, tango, alliteration, metaphors, zombies, alphabetizing things, researching things, cars, writing notes, labelling things, long baths, categorising things, chilli chocolate, salt chocolate, cross-referencing things, insects, horses, children, cooking, eating, moving furniture around, talking to my cats, talking to strangers, drinking in the sun, watching movies, reading in bed, making an 80's pop disco on you tube and getting drunk while singing along loudly, op-shopping, buying underwear, buying perfume, buying homewares, long car rides, going to the library, going to the movies in the middle of the day when no one else is there, grocery shopping, putting the groceries away, learning about plants- especially herbs, smelling flowers, making daisy chains, walking in the moonlight, kicking up autumn leaves, swimming, and dreaming about flying...*

when i grow up i want to have a hobby farm, with chickens, a horse, a great big vege and herb garden, a couple of dogs, a whole bunch of cats, a couple of kids and, hopefully one day, a great husband...

(*this is not a comprehensive list)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
* finding four leaf clovers

* befriending strangers

* tidying/ organizing/ packing things. like a suitcase. a fridge. maybe a drawer

* reading maps (ab-nav to the rescue! sure, it's a dying art)

* befriending animals

* cooking

* accidentally injuring myself

THINGS I'M REALLY BAD AT:

* time management

* staying awake in cars (or buses, trains, planes, boats... you name it, i nap in it once it starts to move.)

* speech making

* tanning

* remembering details

* walking on stairs
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my smile (well, that`s what they tell me anyway...) and my eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
.BOOKS; i love reading, almost always have a few on the go at once... my favourite authors are orson scott card, the late, great kurt vonnegut, anthony bourdain, neil gaiman, patrick ness, jasper fforde, chuck palahniuk, ray bradbury, john wyndam and tom robbins, i also really like the dexter books, the his dark materials trilogy, the forest of hands and teeth trilogy, and enjoy a bit of jeremy clarkson on occasion too... holy crap how good is a song of ice and fire? and loving the hunger games too. right now i'm in a bit of a swedish crime buzz, with lars keplar and camilla lackberg leading the pack; and recent additions to the favourites list are jennifer mcmahon, and tana french...

.MOVIES; my all-time favourite movie is natural born killers- it`s so romantic! i generally like horror best, things with a bit of a twist, but do enjoy a good trashy rom com too! psychological thrillers, post-apocayptic / dystopian future, quirky hard to categorise 'indie' stuff... and in particular i really like the city of lost children, sin city, logan's run, the notebook, v for vendetta, boondock saints, the matador, mr nobody...

.TV; dr who, wwe raw, top gear, drawn together, dexter, happy tree friends, grey's anatomy, house, popular, lost, torchwood, firefly, carnivale, the mentalist, dollhouse, himym, reality shows featuring pretty people making fools of themselves, invader zim, grand designs, how i met your mother... latest favourites are american horror story, game of thrones, those who kill, true detective, les revenents, in the flesh, orphan black, revenge, the mindy project and hannibal.

.as for music, my all-time favourite band is depeche mode. i mainly like rock and 80`s pop... i generally prefer compilations, and have been listening to a lot of die antwoord, kat frankie, and the 'only lovers left alive' soundtrack lately... and this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pgvkv_qF_wo is my current youtube recommendation. do yourself a favour. :p

.foods; anything cooked with skill and passion,especially asian or italian... not fish though, i don`t like seafood. i love cake, asparagus, cheese, vanilla things, salami, olives, custard, salted caramel, avocado, rare steak, mascarpone, blueberries...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
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books
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love
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sleep
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nature
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city
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solitude
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I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to survive the zombie apocalypse- my house is a logistical nightmare; how i'd design and decorate my dream house; the urban farm i wish i could have when i grow up- what animals i want, where i'd put the orchard and how much room i'd need for a horse; new tattoos; redecorating and reopening my favourite bar; what books i want to find next; how to make my gorgeous flat even better and what flowers and veges i would like to have in the garden; and falling in love, of course...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
you can usually find me at home, in my jammies, sometimes drinking, sometimes watching movies, sometimes reading... i like having friends over for a few drinks (but don't always change out of jammies) and only sometimes go out these days. i'm just as likely to be out on a monday as a friday night- not working regular hours means i don't have to cram my fun into a set night...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i sometimes laugh in my sleep...

i still have my "blanky" which is called yellow. and is blue.

i have a weakness for blue`s clues... hell, i AM a blue's clue!

i have spent an entire day watching movie trailers...

i read more than one book at a time...

i once cried when i woke up from a really good flying dream and had to face reality...

i can't work stairs. they are out to get me.

my spice drawer is usually tidier than anything in my room...
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