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abic

24 / M / straight / Single

Ypsilanti, Michigan

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Skinny
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English, Portuguese (Poorly), C++ (Fluently)

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I am stubborn, silly, and shy.

My Self-Summary

I'm generally a thoughtful guy who would like to pretend to be cool and suave but can't help but be a giddy fool.

What I’m doing with my life

I've graduated with my bachelors in Computer Science and am working at U of M. I'm mostly settling into an easier paced life for now and would like to start on a masters in another year or so. Mostly I'm biding my time to see what's on the horizon. That and building out my interests now that I can. Next up, buy my dad's old motorcycle.

I’m really good at

I'm told I'm a great cook and I really enjoy trying out new recipes. I recently got good at making chicken gumbo and have been working on baking sourdough bread. I've been told I'm good at a lot of things but I honestly think that's just because people are too intimidated to explore their capabilities. One should never be afraid of trying a new hobby.

I'm good at dropping my silliness when I need to be serious.

Things I'm terrible at:
eye contact - I'm actually forcing myself to work on this and have gotten better about it
cuddling - I've always been awkward at this.
lying - I honestly can't tell a good lie to save my life.
sleeping - I can be a bit of an insomniac sometimes.

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm quiet and stare off into space. Though when on the right subject it's hard to shut me up.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Anything by Douglas Adams, Jeffrey Deaver, Shawshank Redemption (Hated the movie with a passion!)

Movies: Wall-e, Ocean's Eleven,
Anything by Mel Brooks, Bruce Campbell, Broken Lizards

Music: I'm told I have a very eclectic taste in music (one of the only times I hear that word used). Though I generally don't like rap and generic country (blue grass and folk FTW). I can't name artists or albums I just know what I like when I hear it. Also I like independent, obscure, experimental, world type genres, check out Falik on magnatune.com

I love all foods. I usually stay away from greasy foods though and can't stand many sports-bars and sports-bar-like restaurants because of the lack of non deep fried items on the menu. ( It was a sad day when I found out people actually deep fried ravioli) I love more authentic foods, like real mexican restaurants that serve tamales, and cajun gumbo that actually has flavor instead of too much salt and cayenne.

The six things I could never do without

Laptop, the internet and servers. (I'll lump that as one so it doesn't seem so overwhelming)

And everything else:
2. A good cast iron skillet and a gas range.
3. Long conversations that last until 4am
4. A real bed (futons killed my hip)
5. Capoeira
6. A genuine connection

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Programming and Servers, frankly I found the job that pays me to do something I don't even consider work.

I think a lot about the future, sometimes too much and not in a helpful way.

On a typical Friday night I am

Lately it's been hanging out with friends wine and cheese tasting or driving out to some Capoeira event (hint: ask me about the later).

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I sing to Frank Sinatra songs while driving. I especially enjoy "You make me feel so Young".

I avoid the camera like the plague. I'm comfortable with the way I look but rarely take a good picture.

You should message me if

You have a passion for something in life and are some what of a goof ball.

I don't care for people that need attention because they have some issue to sort out. I can't solve that issue for you by lavishing you with attention. I'm fine if a girl likes attention because she has a genuine interest in me.