I have an omnipermeating sense of humor and someone who can make me laugh when I'm upset - and who likes to laugh when THEY are upset as well - is someone I am dying to meet. I am superbly fun-loving but I don't play games with others' feelings. Nor do I respond well to people attempting it - I have a defiant streak which swells in response to emotional manipulation... although there are some notable exceptions. I care VERY deeply about those close to me and believe the ultimate sign of respect is complete honesty.
Despite being pansexual I love pots, woks, and other cookware as well. My gender/sex is solidly on the male side of the spectrum, though I don't subscribe to the idea of a gender binary and tend to think of myself more as 8.5/10 male. I'm about a 2.5 on the Kinsey scale, if that's your measure.