Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I was born in NYC, grew up in NJ, flowered and got de-flowered in
San Francisco, and have been a strongly identified Brooklynite for
about 18 years now.
I make performances, dance-based stuff. I like to go see
performances, art shows, all kinds of stuff along the high/low art
spectrum. I have a lot of amazing friends and I'm pretty close with
my family. I have a pretty irreverent sense of humor and I like to
laugh a lot. I'm notorious for saying the inappropriate but honest
thing in a funny enough way that makes it ok for everyone else to
loosen up their collars.
I grew up speaking Spanish and English. I root for the underdog.
I'm definitely a city boy but I've gotten more and more into
spending time in nature. I moved to a greener, more tree-lined
streets part of Brooklyn a couple years ago because the cement
jungle was starting to wear on me. I ride my bike as often as I can
and if I had all the money in the world and none of the anxiety of
rising tides I'd live in a house by the ocean.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Making art, seeing art, performing, teaching, traveling. Studying
an alternative body/mind modality called The Feldenkrais Method.
Spending time with friends, family. Riding my bike everywhere.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making super irreverent jokes.
ping pong. (ok not THAT good)
that thing where you go from vertical to horizontal.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm dressed in the standard queer/gay beard good shirt/sweater
jeans nyc uniform but I'm wearing more color.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Hmm I have a pretty big appetite for culture, so let's stick with
Books: Cruising Utopia by Jose Muñoz, and just read Mrs. Dalloway
by Virginia Woolf, which utterly wrecked me.
Movies: Logan's Run. ridiculous movie that i love.
Shows: GoT, Looking, The Fall, Empire, and yes, Scandal, though I
kind of can't with Scandal.
Music: All over the map here from pop to experimental
Food: I like food. A lot. But i'm trying to be all paleo right now
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my amazing bed or whatever, just like, a good bed.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...the art I am making/wanna make.
...how to spend more time at home.
...celebrity plastic surgery.
...how to enjoy whatever situation I'm in and how to see the best
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with my friends or relaxing from what are usually
pretty busy weeks. Seeing a show. Watching a movie. Making a late
night burger and salad.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'll never be accused of being enigmatic.
You should message me if
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you can bear the fact that I've mentioned my bike three times in
you are kind and compassionate, a pro at communicating, really into
the work you do, smart and sexy, have a great sense of humor, smell
really good, are in good shape and are interested in taking care of
yourself body, mind and spirit.
Who are you looking for?
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