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abrasivesounds

28 M Chicago, IL

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 30
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin, White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Strictly vegan
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from space camp
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Poorly), LISP (Fluently), Swahili (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
"If you can't handle me at my 666, you don't deserve me at my 420." - marilyn monroe.

re-incarnate, racial cocktail, slave to the zodiac, fluent in sarcasm, impractically compassionate, radical/progressive, way into futurism/surrealism/dadaism, social experimentalist, non-confrontational vegan, tinkerer, button-pusher, line-crosser, anti-racism/bigotry/misogyny/ignorance.

general: underground music and art, radical politics, critical theory (gender/sexuality/race), philosophy, religion, lost cities, annihilated cultures, new futures, alternative history, environmentalism, healthy and fresh food, yoga/meditation, etc.

"The present is theirs, the future is mine." - Tesla
schedules, repetition, monotony, and complacency are not my thing
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Having fun, not regretting things.
Hood rat shit.
EATING FROZEN MANGOES.
Making sure these plants don't die.
ʕノ•ᴥ•ʔノ CAPITALISM

Trying to find ways to collaborate with people in the art/visual world. I am interested in creating environments through sensory immersion. Also getting into collages / building plaster pyramids / small cities.

My ambient-orchestral-soundart-groove music
https://soundcloud.com/seyoncejamz

Learning how to make 3d art?

For $$$: work at a health food market
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
shoegazing, noise-making, sound-manipulating, looping, making guitars twinkle and synths soar, making you feel tranquil/elated/encompassed by sound.

Vaping weed, not wearing a shirt, getting tan as fuck.
Getting into weird situations, and biking everywhere.
Occupying many spaces at once.
Expressing myself through images.
Using things outside of their intended purpose.
Catching falling things - literally, not metaphorically.
Boys II Men lyrics.
Putting it all out there at once.
Being a dog in a cat city.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't know, I'm pretty animated and vocal, so I'm sure I will unintentionally catch someone's attention.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
books: read a book? I just finished the whole series of goosebumps...by R.L. Stein. Pretty sure that counts. JK. Mostly non-fiction about politics, law, gender, race, history, religion, philosophy, physics, etc.
In the last few months : naked, the stranger, picture of dorian gray, brave new world, slaughterhouse five, diary, slapstick, tibetan book of the dead.

youtube is giving me art history lessons at the moment.

shows: arrested development (pass out to it every night, literally), archer, it's always sunny, trailer park boys, workaholics, party down, etc.

movies: american history x, brazil, seven, memento, city of the lost children, city of god, pi, run lola run, the cell, requiem for a dream, twelve monkeys, battle royale, old boy, enter the void, dogtooth, etc. Basically, surrealist psych thrillers. Slowly working my way back to experimental film from the 20s and 30s.
netflix says: mind-bending, cerebral, visually-striking, foreign, documentaries, etc.

music: talking heads, steve reich, brian eno, erik satie, arvo part, art of noise, maurice ravel, aaron copland, claude debussy, yndi halda, ryuichi sakamoto, boards of canada, gang gang dance, slava, afrika bambaataa, d-train, grandmaster flash, newcleus, talib kwelli, binary star, prince, nas, brand nubian, tribe called quest, charles mingus, thelonious monk, art tatum, wes montgomery, django reinhardt, buck owens, son house, marvin gaye, donny hathaway, al green, r kelly, usher, slow jamzzzz, 90s jamzzzz, ethiopian soul, etc.. I'm all over the place with music, but I really love minimalism, ambient, electro, jazz, hip-hop, and soul. I secretly listen to a lot of Fleetwood Mac, and Earth, Wind, and Fire.

last.fm/user/midwestprogress

websites: ultraculture, io9, hyperallergic, ubuweb, acid25, nofearofpop,, hypemachine, resident advisor, kurzweilAI, MIT/TED talks.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
music, lovin, honesty, confidence, trader joe's, my bicycle.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-Social justice / inequality / the future.
-Social norms / structures - how much I really dislike them.
-What constitutes art. Sorting out my own aesthetics.
-The feminine mystique....jk. I know women way too well.
-The impact of technology/entertainment on social progress/political movements, the effects of a truly transhumanistic society, and the the homogenization of personalities.
-why post-apocalyptic depictions never include pastels.
-why are midwest people so weird? there's a distinct neurosis about them. I think it's the Christian guilt.
-the complexity underlying seemingly simplistic things
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Imagine Prince Aladdin, singing "a whole new world," but the world was full of artfags in nasty warehouses, dancing to grimey experimental-electronics. That's kinda what I do.

Moving around from event to event. I like going to shows/galleries and supporting my friends, going to house parties, hanging out with my crew of creative and ambitious people.

Dancing with the devil in the pale moonlight.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Nothing about me is private. I take responsibility for my words/actions.

I ate playdoh/fish food flakes as a child.
I once woke up with glitter on my junk :\
I don't know about them internet girls...

I know some bad beaches: rare_youth quiche_latifah shed_djjs horseypony dinosaurmuffinz kittiezkatz heartzher Buoyantsea renoddakota bluemesh andi_jane
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Having said that, I'm open to all sorts of interactions.
1) Find an activity partner. Do some yoga/meditation, hit up museums/weirdo music shows, collab on some art/music, chit chat.
2) Find someone who wants to get married and go live "Jungle Book" style. I really just want to move to a farm outside of the city, have a greenhouse, grow my own food/make my own clothes. DIY in as many aspects as possible. Self-sufficiency is chill.
3) Find a sugar momma in LA/SF/NYC. Some sort of scantily clad cabana boy situation is preferred.

"Have you guys ever met someone that just gets you on all levels? Makes you feel like your souls are just boning each other in the spirit world?"

I'd like someone who is: active, engaged, intelligent, humble, playful, and compassionate. I'm down to blab about music/art/technology/social issues/feminism/culture/whatevs.