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34 M Granby, CT

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm really sick of meeting bad quality people. But I also don't want to be too judgmental based on something as shallow as a dating profile. I know what kind of person I'm seeking, and these are two requirements that I've come up with. They're semi-negotiable.

1. You have to know what friendship is. I do. Friendship has been cheapened in the information age.

2. You must appreciate honesty. 100% of women say they want an honest guy, but maybe 5% actually respond well to it.

I'm not trying to be harsh, but I am trying to be blunt. There are way too many selfish, shallow, brainwashed people out there and I no longer want to deal with them. I'm not looking to be popular on this website, I want to find just one person with whom I can have real conversations with. Thanks for understanding!
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to find my niche and sometimes making a lot of progress. I'm actually a part of the awesome foodie scene that's been growing exponentially in Connecticut, and I feel like I actually make a difference in peoples' lives. I'm looking for people who are interested in taking road trips to various farms, restaurants, and foodie spots in CT.
I’m really good at
writing, cooking, understanding art; especially music, intimacy, understanding people, political issues, philosophical issues, understanding different cultures, connecting with intelligent and good hearted people, swimming against the current.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm easy to talk to, but have a unique way of thinking. I have a strong sense of who I am, and a confidence that's deep but not always easy to understand.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A.)Hunter S. Thompson, James Michener, Napoleon Hill, Amy Goodman, books about musicians, books about politics. I'm a big wikipedia junky. Currently reading: Life by Keith Richards, The Art of Non-Conformity, The Proud Highway, The 4 Hour Work Week.

B.) Almost Famous, Sideways, American Beauty, I Heart Huckabees, Gone Baby Gone, This is Spinal Tap, 40 Year Old Virgin, Genetic Roulette, The Wackness, and many more.

C.) Louie (my love life is pretty much exactly like that) How I Met Your Mother, The Daily Show, Colbert Report, The Ed Show, Democracy Now, Workaholics, Game of Thrones, 30 Rock, Bizarre Foods, No Reservations with Anthony Bourdain, South Park. Anything with food and/or travel.

D.) Music is my passion and obsession. I'm a music purist and can appreciate any music that's organic. I'll give anything a fair chance though.
The six things I could never do without
friends (real friendship is a rare thing in the information age)
good wine
live music and my record collection
food that makes me healthy and happy
personal integrity, which isn't popular, but I still embrace it
trails through the woods
I spend a lot of time thinking about
This quote: “The reasonable man adapts himself to the world; the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself. Therefore, all progress depends on the unreasonable man.”
George Bernard Shaw
On a typical Friday night I am
Doing whatever's good, or sometimes bad.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've had to constantly dumb down my profile on this thing. I believe this is the reason why:
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–35
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You're not typical. The opposite of courage isn't fear, it's conformity.