absenceofbeauty
31 Kfar Saba, Israel
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My self-summary
**** I'll be visiting Japan for one month from march 14th and will be happy to meet anyone, even without romantic prospects****

I'm a poet.
This is not only in the sense that I write poetry, it's in the way I look at life.
It's the way I see things, the way I think and feel.
In fact, I don't write that much poetry anymore, not in the way of a poem.

I'm optimistic. I'm happy. I'm content.
I'm excited about trying new things.

I dream, and not only at night.
I think, and create, and solve problems, sometimes when I sleep.

The dream that has me rewriting this profile, is that of polyfidelity: The idea that a serious, closed, long-term, relationship can involve more than two people.
I've had this dream for a long time. Currently, I've seen glimpses of the fact this can work.
LionneHeart and myself are in a relationship, and we've been dating people, together, in hopes of forming a loving relationship with another person.
What I’m doing with my life
I most often hear the phrase: "So, what do you do?"
And then I usually hear an answer on the lines of "I work as a secretary in a lawyer's office" or "I'm currently a student and work as a waitress".

Is that really what people do?

I do not.
I think. I create. I explore.

I have been in a slump for a while now. Working from home has left me with little social interaction and outside stimulation, which makes it hard to create. I have signed up (21/10/12) for a one year course of computer game design. It has only been a week, and I already feel the creativity flowing through me. Meeting new people, being exposed to new ideas. I'm ready to create again.

UPDATE (7/7/2013): We finished our first game in the course, still has some issues, but the deadline was met. You can play it here:
http://www.materialpoetics.com/Hatchlinks/Hatchlinks.html

Starting to work on my next game, for the final project!
I’m really good at
Logic and creativity. Yes most people think those don't come together but they do. I Like creating things and I like being innovative but I do it in a logical manner, I understand things and create them in an (hopefully) appealing way.
The first things people usually notice about me
It all depends on the observer.

They may notice I have piercings, or that I am overweight.
They could notice my head is shaved or that my skin is tanned.
They might notice I have rolling laughter, that gets people to join in.
Depending on the situation they might notice I am bright, or creative.
And if someone looks at me in an odd way, they might notice my distress.

I hope you notice I am a person that can love, and love a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Devil's Advocate, Labyrinth, Princess Bride, Fight Club, Matrix, Lord of the Rings, Daywatch, Nightwatch, Memento, Le Grand Bleu.
Ender's Game (along with all the sequels), [[A door into summer] (and everything else by Heinlein I've read), Ringworld, Discworld, Neverwhere, Broken Wings, Risen Empire, Killing of Worlds .
I listen mainly to Gothic Metal, but I have a wider taste than a category. Flowing Tears, After forever, Therion, Within Temptation, Sonata Arctica, Kamelot, Epica, Blind Guardian, Esben and the Witch, Crystal Castles, Sunday Driver, .
Gourmet, sushi, Hamburgers, and anything else that's well made.
The six things I could never do without
In no particular order:
Mind
Independence
Body
Intimacy
Creation
and the people I love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Inventions of mine, from small to groundbreaking, and non-monogamous relationships.
On a typical Friday night I am
I prefer not to go out on a Friday night, I dislike the masses.
You would most likely catch me at home or with friends playing various board games likes Carcassonne, Puzzle Strike, Arkham Horror, Pandemic and Agricola.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Like with most people, there is a direct correlation between how much I know a person and how much I'm willing to share.
Unlike most people, where once they know someone better, they are willing to share more.
with me it's a bell curve.
I'm willing to share anything and everything with a complete stranger.
Once I get to know you a little, I may feel the need to hide some things, because I'm actively trying to make a good impression.
And at the other side of the bell curve, when I get to know you really well (and you me), I become again confident in sharing anything.
You should message me if
One or more of the following:
-You want to hang out in Japan around end of march middle of april.
-You find this funny:Tim Minchin: Take my wife
-The idea of polyfidelity strikes you as interesting.
-You feel like chatting.
-You want to play board games.
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