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25 Raleigh, NC Woman


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Dec 3, 2014
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Cancer, and it matters a lot
Graduated from two-year college
Has cats

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My self-summary
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i am me(lissa).
im an old soul reincarnated. i stand alone in a crowd of people. i don't care about the kind of car you drive or the clothes you wear. im a hopeless romantic. solitude is my best friend. i come alive at night. im open-minded, eclectic, and introspective. i listen to songs on repeat. i flip a coin to make decisions. i wear my heart on my sleeve. i am easily delighted by the little things in life. i won't change for anyone. i'd rather be anything but ordinary. if you want my autobiography - just ask me.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am currently in the midst of growing into the person I want to become. I'm in the process of trying to open up my own cafe or food truck, and in the meantime slinging lattes through a coffee window downtown. I enjoy the freedom that comes along with having no other obligations than enjoying my own moments. I'm currently attempting to make more genuine connections. Like most people my age, I'm just trying to get my life to match my ideals.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
attracting animals and small children, being awkward, real talk, over thinking everything, honesty and loyalty. Intuition, sarcasm... and laughing all of the time at random things that most people don't find funny.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People like to make idiotic comments about my tattoos.

Or... the fact that I'm short, skinny, or look young (yeah, don't mention these things please) kthx.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music: Trance, house, dance and electronic stuff. Radiohead, Alt-J, Zero 7, Thievery Corporation, Florence & The Machine, Coldplay, Minus the Bear, The Postal Service, Portishead, Ben Howard, Local Natives, Foals, Third Eye Blind, The Weeknd, Wiz Khalifa, Kendrick Lamar, Curren$y, Sohn, Polica, Washed Out, Santigold, M83, Active Child, LCD Soundsystem, Fleetwood Mac, A Fine Frenzy, The National, Tiesto, Armin Van Buuren, Nadia Ali, Jill Scott, Sia, Mae, Tom Petty, Feist, Telepopmusik, Crystal Castles, Lauryn Hill, India Arie, Kaskade, Joseph Arthur.

Movies: Into the Wild, Closer, Sunshine Cleaning, Chocolat, How to Deal, The Secret Life of Bees, Crazy Stupid Love, The Kids are Alright, Remember Me, Garden State, Away We Go, Adventureland, Elizabethtown, Spirited Away, Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory, Eat Pray Love, You Me & Everyone We Know, Little Miss Sunshine, The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants.

TV Shows: Desperate Housewives, Queer as Folk, The Fosters, Sex & The City, The Mindy Project, Orange is the New Black, Friends, Portlandia, The L Word, Lip Service

Indian is my favorite...or anything spicy. I collect vegetarian recipe books. I love the earthy, green veggies that most people hate (escarole, broccoli rabe, kale, swiss chard, artichokes, etc.). Tofu, avocados, cucumbers, lemons, beets, salads, and fruits (especially watermelon). Italian and Mediterranean inspired dishes, I appreciate a well made sandwich, and who the hell doesn't love pizza and pasta?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
human interaction and intimacy
self expression
my cats
a big bath tub
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
food food food food FOOOOD.
sex, love, lust and everything in between.
The past and present and what might have been...
Or the future and what is to become.
All of the places I'd love to travel and all the things I'd like to know.
Why people do the things they do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
A) having so much fun lurking all of the people I already know on here
B) trying to squeeze into some bar or restaurant downtown along with the rest of the Raleigh population or
C) at home making dinner for friends or family, listening to music, painting, writing, or browsing through a billion movies on Netflix yet never actually picking and sticking with one.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I collect my cat's whiskers and have almost 200 now.

And I forgive too easily.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you know a great place to eat.
you've got adventure ideas.
you recycle!
you wanna take charge now and then.
you believe in romance and want something real
your ego is at a healthy level. (conceited = huge turn off)
you know how to communicate what you want
you're not genre specific and could have fun at a roller rink, art opening, dive bar, taco bell, my kitchen, the forest, etc.