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ac614

34 / F / Straight / Single

Hayward, Wisconsin

Her Details

Last Online
Jan 18
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
College/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Balanced somewhere between social girl and that independent type. I feel really lucky on a daily basis to be surrounded by the all-out great people in my life, but the best things I've ever done have been solitary endeavors (moving to England and India on a whim, writing a book, being a part of Disaster Corps, learning the entire choreography of Footloose).

I love (and have) a really sarcastic sense of humor, but I think if you ever met me you'd find a girl pretty delighted by life. And probably by you.

I'm a happy traveler, an insatiable reader, an enthusiastic wine drinker, and a pop culture nerdatron. There was also a time when I was under the delusion that I was a champion arm-wrestler, but then I realized that everyone was just letting me win. It was really fun at the time, though, to yell "OVER THE TOP!" and feel like it was really working.

I'm also pretty fun to have around in an airport.
What I’m doing with my life
I wear a few different hats: I'm a professional blogger, and I run a couple of my own online-centric companies in conjunction with that. I also moved up to Hayward this fall to launch a really rad local business with my business partner.

I'm also a writer. I published a novel two years ago, and I have another one coming out in a few weeks. Even though I love writing so much that doing it isn't even a choice, I really don't like to talk much about it. It feels like I'm telling stories about the kids I don't yet have, and I don't even like hearing stories about people's kids that they DO have.

Except for yours, of course.
I’m really good at
Writing about feelings, giving high-fives, coming up with Halloween costumes, recognizing pure mands, delivering quick comebacks, not reinforcing inappropriate attention-seeking behavior, slow-dancing, staying calm in hectic situations, tipping my server, and memorizing lyrics to songs no one else likes.
The first things people usually notice about me
...is that I'm not super big on caring about what it is that others notice about me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Top Five:

Books: Population 485 by Michael Perry, Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close by Jonathon Safran Foer, Fall On Your Knees by Ann Marie MacDonald, I Will Go Barefoot All Summer For You by Katie Letcher Lyle, Prep by Curtis Sittenfeld.

Movies: The Last of the Mohicans, High Fidelity, Out Cold, Super Troopers, Cabin in the Woods.

Music: Local Natives, Ray LaMontagne, Bon Iver, Brand New, Sigur Ros.

TV Shows: Parks & Rec, The Daily Show, Revenge, The Office, and The Real Housewives of everywhere.
The six things I could never do without
Campfires, music, pine trees, writing materials, black coffee, and tall Hunter Wellingtons.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Writing. The hilarious things my friends say and do. Mountains and the sea. How to make a sustainable living out of sustainable development. The shape I want my life to take.
On a typical Friday night I am
...at a bonfire with a bottle of beer, at a lodge with live music, in front of a fireplace with a glass of wine. Doing, you know..."grown up" things.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I was born without a hip socket. You can't tell from looking at me now, but in about 20 years I'll probably have to start walking with a cane. Which will actually be really cool, because then I can use it to "accidentally" whack obnoxious kids or Ed Hardy-wearing douchebags as they stumble out of Drink.

Just kidding. I would never even go near Drink.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 28–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You like your life and what you're about. You operate easily in unfamiliar territory. You're more fascinated with others than you are with yourself.