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28 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Mar 4
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of space camp
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am in both GB and NYC alot for the next few months.

Trying to keep it interesting. a native.

sorry if anyone was trying to message me, my inbox was full and I just emptied it. Still not on here much but I get the emails and do check this account.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
drinking bees and puking honey
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being openminded and pushing boundaries, making ribs and chicken parm. I'm easy to talk to, the kind of person that makes friends with the people at the table next to ours. I have a really great core friend group here that I love to death, but always enjoy meeting new people.

Being a big brother, making new friends, staying in touch with old friends, getting people to open up to me...helping people push their own boundaries and feeling really comfortable about it.

either a really good influence or a terrible one, depends on your opinion I suppose.
The first things people usually notice about me
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blue eyes, loud laugh
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: science fiction mostly.
Wishes: there was a new song of fire and ice book out already!
Movies: lots of them. probably weird ones.
TV: house of cards, twin peaks, americans, archer, firefly, orange is the new black, shameless
Shows: ballet
Music: live.
Food: fresh and homemade
Idols: Aubrey Plaza, Alison Brie and Chris Pratt. Can they all hang out and have a show together?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Water, green edible things, trust, communication, sex, all the nerve endings, touch, kink, emotional/sapio connections, avocados get special mention.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
open communications. human connections. good humans.

I give myself very good advice but seldom ever follow it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?

Mostly avoiding crowded bars. Weekday drinking is the way to go.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Dominant and kinky in the bedroom, I enjoy power play. And yes, I know what being dominant means. It is the complete opposite of being cruel and selfish, judgmental or chauvinistic. I love pleasure, and I love giving it and exploring it, mentally, sexually, emotionally there are many ways. That doesn't mean I don't enjoy vanilla sex, because I do.

Casual is alright though I am looking for something more meaningful. There must be an emotional, sapio and physical connection. If that's something we share please be able and willing to have open communication about exploring sexuality.

I have a gift for making people for comfortable with me very quickly. It is unexpected and often noted later on in surprised appreciation. Of course I can say that but you'll only know what that means if you meet me. I'm open to polyamory but with strong emotional connections monogamy is preferred I think.

key: dominant, submissive, kinky, sapiosexual, demisexual, cuddly, poly, polyamory
You should message me if
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You're openminded; self-aware; sex/body positive; into kink; are a feminist
You can hold an intelligent conversation.
You like to experience knew things and places and cultures.
You understand that trust and open communication are essential to any type of relationship.

Be a feminist. Be communicative. Be creative mentally (I don't mean artistic, which is fine too, but more generally able to think creatively) Communication and trust are the most essential things for me in any relationship, friend or lover. Oh and also please don't take things so seriously. If you can't be butt-ass-naked and laughing your ass off in bed with me then we probably won't get along.

You try real hard to be a good girl but are really just a brat.

You like it when I make you feel small.

Msg me if you're interested in chatting and/or a meeting that involves real conversation and some kind of booze. I'm not looking for one night stands.

I really do not use this profile but do get the email alerts (though I miss them sometimes) but I always try to respond to msg's I get and do still meet people on here, so if i don't respond quickly just send another msg. If you're interested just msg me because otherwise I rarely msg people from this.