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35 M Baldwin, NY

My Details

Last Online
May 12
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Overweight
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm an introspective, thoughtful guy who is sometimes shy and hesitant, but really loves getting to know people. I'm funnier than I realise; I make people laugh without meaning to all the time and I love when that happens. I can get very animated and excited if you stumble across a topic that I'm passionate about; otherwise, I have to be drawn out a little bit. Either way, I'm a great listener as well as fun to be around.

I'm looking for someone who is both creative and down to earth, who has passion for her work and is dedicated to doing what it takes to make the life she wants. She is responsible and serious without having lost the ability to have fun. She's extroverted and energetic, but quiet and thoughtful when she needs to be. She sees quirkiness as amusing and interesting and loves diversity, and of course she's open to romance with a transgender guy.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a life coach who helps talented people find more fulfillment in their lives. I am also a freelance writer. When I'm working I try to focus completely on what I'm doing, but then when I'm done for the day I relax and have fun. I love to cook and experiment with different recipes, especially from other cultures. I also love going out to eat with friends, trivia night competitions and pretty much anything social as long as I know at least one other person where I'm going.

I try to live my life by Harvey Milk's directive to “give 'em hope” and by the Jewish notion of tikkun olam—repairing the world. I'm an advocate for the transgender and Aspergers communities; I write and speak about communicating, acceptance and making connections to try to help people feel less alone. I'm hoping to lower the suicide rate, especially in the transgender community, where it's an abysmal 40 percent.
I’m really good at
listening to and encouraging my friends.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have a bright smile. I also have been told I have very nice eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Belva Plain's Evergreen saga, Harry Potter, Hollow Earth.
Movies: Dead Poets Society (though I also love comedies, especially goofy/zany stuff like Airplane)
TV: Torchwood. I like Doctor Who too but Torchwood is so much darker and engaging for me. I do watch American TV too--I never miss Law and Order: SVU and during the summer I enjoy Perception and Major Crimes. I also like family shows like The Fosters, Parenthood and The Michael J Fox Show.
Food: I love Chinese and Indian food. When I really like something I've eaten at a restaurant, I look online to see if it's possible for me to make it myself.
The six things I could never do without
The ability to be grateful, good friends, my knowledge that the Universe has my back, hope for the future, my notebook and pen and my creative mind.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the future. I try to stay in the present but I'm also very excited about where life is gonna take me and who I'm gonna meet along the way.
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually I go to Shabbat services and then out to eat. My temple is pretty laid back and my Rabbi is awesome. Occasionally I'll skip temple and just stay home relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I wish I lived in New York City rather than Raleigh even though the bright lights and all the traffic sometimes scare me.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
the things I've said struck enough of a chord with you that you'd like to get to know me further. I'm looking for friends as well as the person I want to spend the rest of my life with, so feel free to shoot me a message even if you don't like me "that way."