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aceofspades85

24 / M / straight / Single

North Charleston, South Carolina

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Leo
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish

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Your Notes

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I am clumsy, oblivious, and trusting.

My Self-Summary

For those of you who know the whole Myers-Briggs thing, I usually classify as INFP or INFJ.

I'm somewhat shy. Its not really my M.O. to walk up to random people and initiate conversation, which is why I have been trying to use this as a tool to meet people, with some limited (stress on limited) success. I'm working on breaking out of my shell, but it's been a slow process. If you act goofy or find some other way to make me laugh I'll be a lot more relaxed around you.

Second, I have been accused of being a somewhat ridiculous person in the past, and that's about the best way to describe it. See below for details.

Third, as it says in my adjectives, I can be very clumsy and oblivious to my surroundings. I've had people talking to me that I don't even hear because of my selective hearing, people trying to get my attention in other ways that I don't see, etc. My clumsiness is legendary. If I don't trip at least once a day its a miracle. I attribute this to some loss of equilibrium in my past that I have never been able to regain.

What I’m doing with my life

I just graduated from the College of Charleston with a Bachelor's in Computer Information Systems and in Computer Science, which I currently plan on turning into some career, hopefully in software engineering (yes, it's quite nerdy). Meanwhile, I'm working at a bank, which is fine until I can get settled into a. It's coming up shortly. I was planning on moving as soon as I can gainful employment in Raleigh or Charlotte but I'm discovering that leaving home by yourself to go to a strange place where you have no friends is a scary proposition...but an exciting one none the less.
I'd like to make some friends so that when I do move I won't be all by myself trying to find something to do in a strange city. I realize this part may have to wait until I actually move myself, or at least when I'm on the cusp of it.

I recently found out that I'll be doing some traveling to Atlanta for my current job, so it would be cool to meet some people there.

I’m really good at

listening. I'd much rather listen to someone else talk about themselves (most of the time anyway). I'm not sure if I'm a good listener or just a really bad talker, but I guess the latter kind of implies the former.

The first things people usually notice about me

It's the beard whenever I have it. It's the absence of a beard when I don't. Current beard status : 5 o'clock shadow.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

The six things I could never do without

I spend a lot of time thinking about

The future of my life, both short and long term.

On a typical Friday night I am

At the gym, out with friends, or perhaps just at home. I don't really have a set routine for Friday nights.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Last year I dyed my beard green for Bonnaroo (and then shaved it off, because even I can't go through life with green facial hair). This year I walked around in a full green spandex bodysuit (see It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia; Green Man) I tend to be one of those faces in the crowd so sometimes it's fun to do something to draw a little attention to myself, you only live once right?

You should message me if

If I interest you or if you just want a friend, but if you are not within an hour or two of me, then you should probably not message me. (Unless you're in the Charlotte or Raleigh areas...or if you're so awesome that you can convince me to move wherever you are)