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acharris22306

23 / M / Bisexual / Single

Washington, District of Columbia

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Feeling inadequate

Dec 6, 2009

Maybe this is a result of the society we live in, but i cant shake the feeling that im completely inadequate, or at least that i need to work twice as hard to be considered acceptable by society, because i am pansexual and not straight. i know i shouldnt care, that ones sexual orientation has no bearing on ones worth, but i still feel that way.

is it just that i havent fully accepted who i am? or is it because of a deep seated fear of rejection by society?

if anyone has any recommendations on how to deal with this that would be greatly appreciated.

thanks

Maybe this is a result of the society we live in, but i cantshake the feeling that im completely inadequate, or at least that ineed to work twice as hard to be considered acceptable by society,because i am pansexual and not straight. i know i shouldnt care,that ones sexual orientation has no bearing on ones worth, but istill feel that way.

is it just that i havent fully accepted who i am? or is itbecause of a deep seated fear of rejection by society?

if anyone has any recommendations on how to deal with this thatwould be greatly appreciated.

thanks

Feeling inadequate