I am shy, sarcastic, and saccharine.
My Self-Summary
Life for me lately is a serendipitous and ever-changing adventure,
which has been a lovely chapter following my childhood and
adolescence.
I am an idealist, an optimistic pessimist, a student, a worker, a
politicker, a person, a world cohabitant, a pragmatist, an INTJ in
Myers-Briggs typology, an independent spirit, a sardonic observer,
a reader, a technology-crazed buffoon, and a friend.
You should account for some bias in my own self-description, but I
tend to be a very friendly but shy and agreeable person who tries
to avoid confrontations. I have extremely strong political
convictions, but it may not be readily apparent because I like to
hear and observe the ideas of others more than I like to share my
own. I enjoy obscurity and do not have ambitions for fame or
anything like it, but every once in a while, I do attract attention
somewhere. I think I'm relatively independent for my age, and I
really appreciate the responsibilities it demands.
What I’m doing with my life
I recently departed from my suburban roots and a restaurant job I
truly loved, because of the staff and the customers, to seize the
opportunity of living in the lovely city of Minneapolis.
Between Minneapolis Community and Technical College and the
University of Minnesota, I am working toward majors in at least one
of the following: political science, sociology/anthropology, and
language/cultural studies (French, Finnish, Japanese, or Spanish).
I am still very much at the initial stages of my tertiary
education, which is why my studies are somewhat tentative.
I volunteer every once in a while for a nonprofit or political
organization. During the last election cycle, I made donations and
devoted some of my time to working for campaigns, though I do not
think I will do it again any time soon. I discovered that I prefer
nonprofit over partisan.
I bicycle to my workplace and to whichever places I need or want to
go. Only in the most frigid days of winter do I plan to use public
transportation. Fortunately, Minneapolis is one of the most
bike-friendly cities in the country and the world.
I’m really good at
Unfortunately for me, I sometimes give an appearance of knowing how
to do something skillfully, when I really do not. A prime example
is offered by
xkcd, a
webcomic I read, on the topic of technology:
http://xkcd.com/627/
I enjoy listening to and observing people, news, information, and
blogs, and then sharing what I find out— so much, in fact, that
some of my friends claim that I'm their "source of news".
I am pretty good at maintaining organization among my possessions
and all that I do.
I like to play violin and piano and sometimes write music, but I am
neither terrible nor am I a prodigy.
I like to think that, when it comes to languages, I am a little
like a sponge, but like a sponge, I have to keep wet, or my
knowledge dries up.
I am proficient in technical writing, I would say, but when it
comes to fiction, I become a bit incoherent.
The first things people usually notice about me
1—
"You look like Dexter, from 'Dexter'."
2—
"You look like George, from 'Grey's Anatomy'."
3—
"You look like Tobey Maguire."
4—
"You have pretty eyes."
5—
Perhaps the most obscure,
"You look like a young Gore Vidal."
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Books—
Bible, The (whenever
you feel like it)
Free Culture
(2004)
God Delusion,
The (2006)
Harry
Potter Series, The (1997-2007)
Hitchhiker's
Guide of the Galaxy Series, The (1979-2001)
To Kill
a Mockingbird (1960)
Jurassic
Park (1990)
Lone
Ranger and Tonto Fistfight in Heaven, The (1993)
Lost World, The
(1995)
Metamorphosis, The (1915)
Next (2006)
Prey (2002)
Slaughterhouse-Five, or The Children's Crusade: A Duty-Dance with
Death (1969)
State of
Fear (2004)
Things
They Carried, The (1990)
Movies—
28 Days
Later (2002)
28 Weeks
Later (2007)
Across the
Universe (2007)
Akira (アキラ,
1988)
Alferd Packer: The
Musical (Cannibal! The Musical, 1996)
Amadeus
(1984)
Amélie (Le
Fabuleux Destin d'Amélie Poulain, 2001)
Au
Revoir, Les Enfants (1987)
Being
John Malkovich (1999)
Dead Men Don't Wear
Plaid (1982)
Departures
(おくりびと, 2008)
Devil Wears
Prada, The (2006)
Doubt (2008)
Eternal
Sunshine of the Spotless Mind (2004)
Fantasia
(1940)
Funny Games
(2008)
Fullmetal Alchemist the Movie: Conqueror of Shamballa
(劇場版「鋼の錬金術師シャンバラを征く者」, 2005)
Good Night, and Good
Luck. (2005)
Harry Potter
(all years) (2001-2007)
Hot Fuzz
(2007)
I Am Legend
(2007)
I Heart
Huckabees (2004)
Jesus
Christ Superstar (1973)
Juno (2007)
Little
Miss Sunshine (2006)
Lord of the
Rings, The (all parts) (2001-2003)
Memoirs of
a Geisha (2005)
Milk (2008)
Moulin
Rouge! (2001)
No
Country For Old Men (2007)
Phantom
of the Opera, The (2004)
Prestige, The
(2006)
Princess
Mononoke (もののけ姫, 1997)
Producers, The
(2005)
Punch-Drunk
Love (2002)
Requiem
for a Dream (2000)
Simpsons
Movie, The (2007)
Spanish
Apartment, The (L'Auberge Espagnole, 2002)
Spirited
Away (千と千尋の神隠し, 2001)
Star Trek
(2009)
Star Wars (all
episodes) (1977-2005)
Steamboy
(スチームボーイ, 2004)
Stranger
than Fiction (2006)
Sweeney Todd
(2007)
Up (2009)
V for
Vendetta (2005)
WALL·E
(2008)
Music—
All-American
Rejects
Apocalyptica
Bach,
Johann Sebastian
Baker,
Chet
Beatles,
The
Beethoven, Ludwig
von
Bernstein, Leonard
Biret,
Idil
Borodin,
Alexander (Александр Бородин)
Chopin,
Frédéric
Copland,
Aaron
Daft Punk
Debussy,
Claude
Decemberists, The
Dvořák,
Antonín
Eurythmics
Fratellis,
The
Glass,
Philip
Gnarls
Barkley
Grieg,
Edvard
Halstenson, Michael
Handel, George
Frideric
Holst,
Gustav
Jackson,
Michael
Jacobson-Larson,
Nicholas
Kondō,
Kōji (近藤 浩治)
Kronos
Quartet
Lalo,
Edouard
Larson,
Jonathon
LCD
Soundsystem
Mademoiselle
K
Mahler,
Gustav
Mika
Mozart, Wolfgang
Amadeus
Muse
Mussorgsky, Modest (Модест
Мусоргский)
Nash,
Kate
New
Pornographers, The
Orff,
Carl
Piazzolla, Ástor
Prince
Prokofiev,
Sergei (Сергей Прокофьев)
Queen
Rachmaninoff, Sergei
(Сергей Рахманинов)
Radiohead
Ravel,
Maurice
Richie,
Lionel
Rimsky-Korsakov,
Nikolai (Николай Римский-Корсаков)
Rossini,
Gioachino
Saint-Saëns,
Camille
Shostakovich, Dmitri
(Дмитрий Шостакович)
Sibelius,
Jean
Sigur
Rós
Sondheim,
Stephen
Stravinsky,
Igor (Игорь Стравинский)
Styx
Tchaikovsky, Pyotr (Пётр
Чайко́вский)
Tiersen,
Yann
Trans-Siberian
Orchestra
Uematsu,
Nobuo (植松 伸夫)
Värttinä
Voltaire
Waits,
Tom
Webber,
Andrew Lloyd
Winehouse,
Amy
Wonder,
Stevie
Zen
Café
Food—
Cilantro
Feta
Pizza
Pesto
Curry
Fried
plantains
Fresh fruit
(
banana,
orange,
tangerine,
clementine,
grape,
pluot,
apricot,
peach,
pear,
plum,
passion fruit,
pomegranate,
apple)
Coconut
Television shows—
Avatar: The Last
Airbender
American
Dad!
Colbert
Report, The
Daily Show,
The
Doctor
Who
Family
Guy
FLCL
Futurama
House,
M.D.
Iron Chef
Iron Chef
America
MXC
Robot
Chicken
Simpsons,
The
Saturday
Night Live
♫ These are a few of my favorite things. . . ♫
The six things I could never do without
Alphabetization (haha, no,
that's just a self-acknowledgement that I do it to make my life
easier later)
Friends and their
friends
Healthy
food and
drink
Money for the bare
essentials
Music
Sanity
Self-actualization
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I think about what I did, what I could have done, what I should
have done, what I am doing, what I should do, what I must do, what
I can do, and what I will do, mostly the extreme latter. I also
like to have vicarious daydreams from other people's ways of life,
as contrived as it may sound. I think about sexuality and
relationships. I think about how much is completely crazy, in both
good and bad ways, about the universe in which we live. Lately more
than ever, I think about the health insurance that I do not have.
On a typical Friday night I am
On Friday nights I am usually working at the
restaurant, after which I may go home
to a rich glass of
wine or find
something to do with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I regret not going to see my
great-grandmother on her
deathbed.
You should message me if
You might as well give messaging me a try if you think I'm at least
mildly interesting and that your personality and beliefs are at
least mildly compatible with my own, which OkCupid tends to let you
know (if you can't tell somehow).
Disclaimer: If you choose to message me, do not be surprised if you
experience sarcasm, my playing hard-to-get, or a steady trickling
of spontaneous, incoherent, or self-referencing questions and
babbling.