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43 M Ottawa, Ontario, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:19pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, and might want more
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Hi there and thanks for taking the time to check me out :)

I figured I would change this up to try to let you know a bit more background about me and my intentions here within this dating medium.

First off, I treat others the way I would like to be treated and always put myself in others' shoes. I see the bright side to things and am an optimist thoroughly, this is why I am still giving this site a go.

I have a great career helping to grow an established private web development company. I deal with people quite a bit as part of my day and I love this part of my job. I use my brains more than my brawn at work but have worked hard labour-type jobs in the past. I made a career change about a 15 years ago and I am much happier now.

I am all about healthy body/healthy mind and balance my life by committing to a healthy and active lifestyle. I have lived this way since my early teens and see no end in sight. I currently train Muay Thai ( and commit most of my spare time to the training and sparring that comes with it. I also blade when I am able to in the Summer and beach volleyball is also right up there with my loves of Summer. I also eat fairly clean with a cheat day every week to keep the sanity in check. I don’t mind social drinks either now and then.

I have my daughter half the time, on an every other day type schedule which has worked for us for a decade now. She is great and stuff :) I have recently purchased a house as well and making it a home :)

I will leave it at that for now and may add more at a later date.

Best of luck to all and treat others the way you wish to be treated both here and in life in general.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am Technical Writer at a local private web development company. I am currently concentrating on training in Muay Thai (a martial art) and find the conditioning and everything about the sport both stimulating and challenging, and more importantly - humbling.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a good listener
Being laid back
Setting goals and reaching them
The first things people usually notice about me
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The first things people usually notice about me is that I am very friendly and approachable and carry myself very well.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Fave books
- self help, Muay Thai, health and fitness

- action
- super hero flicks
- comedies
- true stories

- reality shows (some of them as the majority of them are trash and laughable)
- Family Guy
- Cleveland Show
- The Following
- Dexter

- alternative rock
- indie rock

- meatarian.... ;)
- chicken shawarmas
- spicey foods
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- my daughter
- the club I train at
- music, my ipod
- my smartphone, always like to be connected and organized
- chicken shawarmas.. haha, my healthy 'fast food'
- water
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Muay Thai, whether or not online dating will work out for me.. haha
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
either with friends at a pub, or decompressing at home after another busy week listening to some music and having a drink reflecting on it all...

If with daughter, cooking a nice meal, movie night, game night, etc.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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nice try OKCupid, nice try...
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