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53 Ottawa, Ontario, CA Woman


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 44–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:59pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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First and foremost, I DO NOT share. That means if you are in a relationship, married, committed in some way to another adult, spouse or common law, I'm not interested ... PERIOD.

Who I am... most often I am a person who makes things happen. I am passionate about living a healthy lifestyle (challenging my body regardless of my "number").

I'm independent. I moved from northern BC with only a few boxes leaving ALL my family and friends behind. I run a national research project that during peak times has me responsible for about 50 people, and responsible to 5 bosses and up to 12 communities. I am not looking for someone to take care of me, nor am I a girly girl.

It was very difficult to describe what I'm looking for ... I would like a person that I can live without but I don't want to... the person that it feels so natural to be with, conversations are easy on a myriad of topics, and there is always laughter. I don't wish to be owned nor do I want to own anyone. I really am looking for my best friend, my 10

May we all find what we are looking for...
What I’m doing with my life
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I have a wonderful life that I enjoy. I don't need anyone to complete me (I came fully assembled). I'm not looking for someone to fix me (extraordinary handi-woman). I work hard, I train hard to balance that and I laugh often. I am the woman walking down the street smiling, laughing to herself, and singing along silently to my tunes (trust me- silent is best). I've decided being happy is more important than being thought crazy.

When I turned 50, I competed in my first bodybuilding figure competition. At 51, I ran my first Spartan race 13k with 21 obstacles.I completed my bachelor’s and master’s degrees and worked full time while raising my two sons. I have a very special young lady who adopted me. She is teaching me the finer points of being female.

My goal in life is to be the best person I can. I believe in modeling ... walking the talk. I work on being positive, being open to new experiences such as paragliding, zip lining, and kayaking. I also work on giving back... in many different ways.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
caring about people .... my kids and friends say I'm ridiculously kind. I'm also really good at kicking my butt in the gym!!
The first things people usually notice about me
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My Smile!!!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love curries, chocolate, and fruit. Give me an apple and peanut butter for dipping and color me happy!

I don't watch TV or get many opportunities to go to movies however my son fills my HD whenever we get together. I like Disney-type (How to train a dragon and Brave), action (Blades and Bournes), Supernatural, big Bang Theory and How I met your mother.

Since my masters I haven't read much non-fiction however I'm hoping to publish sometime this year so I need to get back into it... I like mysteries .. James Rollins or JD Robb
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my kids, my dog, water, food, laughter, hugs
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
where the world will be in five years? Can we undo all the damage we have done to Mother Earth? Am I making a difference? Do I walk my talk? Are politics necessary?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at home relaxing after a busy week... .
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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not yet
You should message me if
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your curiosity is peaked!

** I find it interesting how many men won't say "thank you for the note" even if they don't feel attracted... been online for awhile have you?... do you think it could be Karma? **