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actor-o-matic

33 M Berkeley, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Indian
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Hindi (Fluently), Urdu (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
At 33, maybe for the first time I am truly open to life and anything it may bring. I have a home where I come from but I don't yet have a home where I will go to. I don't know where I will be, what I will be, who I will be with and its all ok by me.

I have a stable life thanks to the years of sincere hard work being what I was expected to be. Diligent, polite, responsible. I really have a good foundation. Now I want to learn how to fly. I have been to every corner of the Bay Area but I want to see it again. Through your eyes. I want to know how you live, what moves you and hear all your stories. I can't say that I am ready for love and marriage but I am ready for exploration, conversations over coffee, discovering hidden paths in the woods, going to the museum, talking about the movies and what to eat.

I am not here looking for great sex. I am looking for what leads up to it.

Abandon. Is a good word to describe my state of being nowadays.

I like old stuff. Old cameras, old lamps, old films, old music, old maps. I love old, decrepit theaters with optical projection systems. And older women, yes. I find them alluring.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I dream up stuff, then I do it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Bridging the gap.
Making people laugh.
Cooking.
Forgetting where I parked.
Singing along.
The first version of Street Fighter.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm quite serious, dignified and reserved. This is not true :) its just what people tend to first notice about me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Under the Net, Isaac Asimov's Foundation Trilogy, Siddhartha, Life of Pi, The Art of Loving, LOTR trilogy
Movies: Jerry Maguire, Chinatown, Life of Pi, Lord of the Rings trilogy, A Fistful of Dollars (and the later two films), Lawrence of Arabia, Pulp Fiction, Dial M For Murder, Office Space. I love Akira Kurosawa's work and I'm big fan of film noir.
Music: I like a lot of stuff from the 70s. Johnny Cash. I love Jazz, specifically piano. The upright bass is probably my favorite instrument. I love the blues. Robert Johnson
Shows: The Wire ... and others, but seriously...The Wire
Food: Pho, ramen, Indian food, mousaka, sushi, blueberry pie. Also, I love grapes.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Maps (seriously, I'm hopeless)
People I love
Meditation
Trees,flowers and wide open spaces
Animals
Chai
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why we suffer and why we want what we want.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I go to the theatre quite a bit. I sometimes sit on the stairs outside and look at the moon.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You have to telephone the NSA and they'll give you the list.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like surprises. I'm full of 'em. You have at least one picture where you're not pouting or making a weird face. If you're a biologist, Im already listening. In general I heavily lean towards scientists and artists but those who have a sense of balance. Or if you're just a person who does some job that's not terribly important to you. If you're a management something or consultant in finance etc its unlikely we will connect but not impossible.