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33 Encinitas, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Atheism, and very serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Shameless nerd seeks shameless nerd to join in unapologetically nerdy activities.
What I’m doing with my life
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I used to be an English teacher in Japan, but I've been back in SD for 4 years now (where I grew up). Finished my masters and work at a behavioral hospital as a therapist/counselor/social worker. I find psychology and mental illness interesting and believe those struggling with mental illness deserve help.
I’m really good at
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Cooking/BBQ, computers, tea brewing, snuggles, Street Fighter, DOTA.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm tall I guess.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love Philip K Dick (sci-fi). He's my favorite author and I've read about 15 of his books. Also a HP Lovecraft fan. I consider myself pretty well versed in cult film. Holy Mountain, El Topo, Enter the Void, Fantastic Planet, Aachi and Ssipak are a few of my favorites.

I don't watch a lot of TV but I'm a fan of Game of Thrones, The Prisoner, Cosmos, Rick and Morty, Wonder Showzen, Super Jail, Adventure Time, Portlandia, Look Around You.

Used to produce music with all my free time but recently fucked up my ears and am currently taking a break from music. Now I just make music for indie PC games. Here's a link to some of my jams from way back.

As far as listening goes...
Patric C, Gangpol und Mit, The M Machine, Lazerhawk, Totally Radd!!, Electromeca, Jeroen Tel, Candie Hank, Diplo, various chiptune and other experimental electronic music.

I LOVE Korean BBQ. My favorite restaurant in SD is Manna BBQ on Convoy street. You need to try it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working on music, snuggling my cat while watching netflix, reddit, video games, late night beach walk.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have an irrational fear of E.T. Yes... that E.T.
You should message me if
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You're educated.

Are not armed services.

Are not religious/conservative.

Can handle my dry/dark sense of humor.

Are a trustworthy person.

If you put "nerdy" in your profile, you better be able to back it up. Wearing glasses doesn't make you a nerd.

One thing I think I should add here... I'm not big on texting with someone all week and then finally meeting and realizing there is no chemistry/attraction. I'm here to meet people, not to have an okc pen pal.

I'd really like to find someone local. Met some really nice people recently but the distance just made it impossible.

I'll be honest, this website has been a complete waste of time for the last 4 months and this is exactly why