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acutiy

38 M Berlin, Germany

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:25pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Sign
Aries
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm an American academic(y) architect type who has just landed in Berlin after bouncing around the world a lot over the last few years (New York City, Netherlands, Hong Kong, other less glamorous places in the US, Morocco, ect.). I'm here for the summer at lest and hopefully longer. I wouldn't mind a little bit of stability. Finding a partner, collaborator, companion and comrade would be great but I'd settle for someone to cook for and give back rubs to... or I guess even a hot exciting lover for a torrid affair, kinky intellectual fling or some radical new adventure I have yet to imagine.
What I’m doing with my life
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Right now I seem to be drifting in and out of being a "real" professor and various sorts of vague "researcher" or visiting fellow or other type of itinerant intellectual positions. I also design things and make things and I'm trying to write a book... so, ya, if you're looking for a visiting fellow let me know.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
bragging
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I stutter; either I'm some kind of pervert, maybe an architect... or else it's just the glasses; sometimes it's the cool sneakers, other times it's the suit; That I'm friendly but apparently kind of "relentless".
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Anything pretentious but with a special affection for old school modernist forms, Cassavetes, Fassbinder, Godard, old-school punk rock, old spooky dub, bluegrass, psychedelic freak-folk.

For food, I like meaty, hearty stuff. Barbecue, German food, pho, ramen with pork and thick broth, smoked fish, stinky cheese. Whatever I'm cooking right now and whatever you cook.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I suspect that one doesn't know this until you lose them, no?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot more time thinking about sex and "the city" than I do about "Sex and the City".

Also food and art and wondering what my far-flung friends are up to.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I haven't had a typical Friday night in a long time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't know. What's the most private thing you really want to hear about? Isn't most of that stuff tedious?

How's this, I'll confess to being totally intimidated by two things in OkCupid profiles: active, healthy, sportiness and talk about monogamy and commitment and romantic stuff. I totally admire and desire and aspire to both of those things but I feel like I'm not good at them (perhaps irrationally). If you give me a break on those fronts, or better yet show me how it's done, I promise I'll be a quick study and teach you a few tricks in return.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
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you're funny and smart and curious and you don't mind me using offers of sex to entice you to come home with me so I can cook you an elaborate dinner.