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adam_poet

32 / M / Straight / Seeing someone

San Diego, California

His Details

Last Online
Apr 7
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Pisces but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Banking / Financial / Real Estate
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Poetry+Jazz+French New Wave+Books+Writing+Rock n' Roll+Hip Hop+Walking+Scarves+Glasses+Basset Hound+Ginger+Sushi+Coffee+etc.=ME
What I’m doing with my life
***Status update: I am very much in love and with someone whom I adore, and so I am only seeking friendship right now.***

Currently...working in a corporate cul-de-sac, writing bad to mediocre poetry, reading too many books at one time, drinking copious amounts of coffee, and spending quality time with my basset hound.
I’m really good at
Being awkward and talking at length about literature, writing, and movies.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm a ginger who wears glasses.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Howl, Crime and Punishment, Come On All You Ghosts, Elegy on Toy Piano, Siddhartha, Post Office, Factotum, Women, Mockingbird Wish Me Luck, The Great Enigma, The Maltese Falcon, V., The Crying of Lot 49, The Pajamaist, Self-Portrait In A Convex Mirror, The End of the West, The Russian Debutante's Handbook, Absurdistan, Super Sad True Love Story, Neuromancer, and the list goes on and on...

Movies: Le Samourai, the 400 Blows, Breathless, Bukowski: Born Into This, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Rushmore, The Royal Tenenbaums, The Hustler, Fight Club, The Graduate, Dead Poet's Society, Weekend, Rififi, Le Cercle Rouge, Bob Le Flambeur, ...

Music: John Coltrane, Miles Davis, Beethoven, Schubert, A Tribe Called Quest, Gangstarr, the Pharcyde, Queens of the Stone Age, Eagles of Death Metal, Joe Henderson, Herbie Hancock, Johnny Griffin, Cannonball Adderly, Lee Morgan, the Beastie Boys, Adolescents, Bad Brains, Black Flag, Circle Jerks, Fugazi, MF Doom, Elvis Costello, Ana Tijoux, Andrew Bird, At the Drive In, Boards of Canada, Bud Powell, Bad Religion, Django Reinhardt, the Black Keys, Black Sheep, Alfred Brendel, the Cult, the Monks, the Remains, and JD McPherson, etc., etc., etc...

Television: I just killed my cable, but when I do watch television I typically watch Mad Men, The Killing, Breaking Bad, and The Walking Dead...

Food: Breakfast Food (e.g. eggs, bacon, buttermilk biscuits, potatoes o'brien, pancakes), Sushi, Pizza, Escargots, ...
The six things I could never do without
poetry, books, coffee, notebook/pen, music, my basset hound...I know that this is essentially seven things, but a notebook and a pen need to be together.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Poetry, absurdism, sex, movies, social/wealth inequality in the United States, food, affection, solitude...
On a typical Friday night I am
writing at a cafe, at dinner with friends, watching a movie, reading, walking my dog, or a combination thereof.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
is nothing. I'm pretty open. Just ask.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
you enjoy stimulating, intellectual conversation, movies, coffee, books, art, etc.; you can teach me something new and exciting about the world around us; you are ridiculous and goofy; you believe in compassion and kindness and you don't see them as a weakness.

Don't message me: if you fail to understand the difference between sarcasm/wit and cruelty/pettiness; you have a penchant for playing games; and, you are unwilling to put a reciprocal amount of effort into having a meaningful friendship.