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  • Ages 23-35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Oct 16
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Turkish (Somewhat), Other (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Back from travels.
I'm a passionate, funny, and thoughtful guy working in theater.

The armchair anthropologist in me is convinced that as a rule of thumb people on the East Coast tend to ask "Why?" while West Coast folks instead ask "Why not?"

I can't tell if I'm an introvert or an extrovert.
I love a good debate.
I love pushing my comfort zones.
I love adventures.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Looking for friends, travelers, lovers and adventurers.
American guy, creative, artistic, pragmatic, eclectic. Work in theater and community health. Inquire within
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Espousing obscure facts, giving massages, summarizing a play or movie concisely in a sentence (conversely I'm not nearly as adept at summarizing a play or movie concisely in three or more sentences), having strange and remarkably interesting jobs, telling stories, listening to people, improving processes, analyzing cultural narratives, making people laugh, procrastinating, getting things done, making hot toddies.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Eyebrows or eyelashes, and depending on the person, my butt.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Movies: Harold and Maude, Ran, Kids in the Hall: Brain Candy, Night of the Hunter, Airplane, Lady Eve, Double Indemnity, Almodovar, John Waters, Billy Wilder, Tarkovsky, Errol Morris, Kurosawa.

Books: Moby Dick, The Postman Always Rings Twice, The Men Who Stare at Goats, 2666, A Sideways Look at Time, Infinite City. Becket, Chekhov, Borges, Genet, Highsmith.

Shows: Project Runway, Early Simpsons, South Park, Frontline, Fawlty Towers, The Wire, The Sopranos, RuPaul's Drag Race, Antique's Roadshow, Mad Men, Rachel Maddow, Daily Show, Colbert Report.

Music: Wide range which includes Black Angels, Black Keys, Etta James, Tom Waits, David Bowie, Iggy Pop, Cat Stevens, Marianne Faithful, Beatles, Nina Simone, Dr. John, Stones, White Stripes, James Booker, Big Mama Thornton, Scissor Sisters.

Food: Really pretty much anything, if it's delicious I'll eat it. Spicy foods+++ Also have a sweet tooth.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) A bike
2) Something to read
3) Coffee
4) Collaboration
5) Family/Friends
6) A sense of curiosity
(7 extra credit) Farmers' Markets.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Anything and everything. Politics, art, music, movies, cultural norms, friends I miss, all the things I want to do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I have no typical Friday night. I could be in the city out and about or in the East Bay, at a show, a movie, a bar, performing, a friend's, home, blah blah blah
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a pretty lousy dancer.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are smart, handsome, passionate, have a good sense of humor. Also talk, and feel comfortable expressing yourself. I have a soft spot for taller guys but not a requirement.