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38 Brooklyn, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
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6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I'm a laid-back, genuinely warm, affectionate guy who appreciates simplicity.

Music is my passion, I play in bands of all types, and it's where I find the true expression of my spiritual self.

I've been told I'm a great listener and a calming presence. While I value sincerity, my sense of humor can sometimes tend towards the absurd. And I have a pretty ridiculous uninhibited laugh, but you might have to unleash it.

Even though I love the energy of the city, I appreciate stillness and silence and the outdoors (I'm from Maine, it's in the blood). Pursuing the beautiful things in life is what interests me most, whatever they may be.

My views definitely tend toward the left, and I try to be engaged with issues of social & economic justice when i can. But I'd like to be more actively involved than I am right now.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to play music that hopefully moves people in some way, and trying to just be an empathetic, compassionate and generous human being overall.
I’m really good at
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Listening, finding humor in odd places, playing the saxophone.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably my height. Maybe my eyes, which seem to contain a lot of different colors. Also, people say they're calmer when they're around me. And according to some my laugh is unique and kind of charming.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: Wendy & Lucy, Bottle Rocket, Miller's Crossing, Naked Lunch, Lost Highway, Happy Gilmore, Man on Wire, Billy Madison, Children of Men, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Wet Hot American Summer. Also a ton of documentaries.

Movies I'm in for like 2 seconds: Howard Zinn: You Can't Be Neutral on a Moving Train

Music: Keith Jarrett, Lucinda Williams, Neil Young, Bill Frisell, Neko Case, Elliott Smith, Billie Holiday, Rufus Wainwright, Gillian Welch, The Walkmen, The Pixies, Paul Motian, The Band, D'Angelo, The Velvet Underground, Stevie Wonder, Bonnie Prince Billy, Leonard Cohen, John Fahey

Books: The Sound and the Fury, Petersburg, Anna Karenina, Blood Meridian

TV: Daily Show, Colbert Report, Broad City, Check it Out! with Dr. Steve Brule, Louie, Party Down, Bored to Death, Freaks & Geeks, Strangers with Candy, Sifl & Ollie, Parks & Recreation, Game of Thrones.

Comedy: Maria Bamford, Louie CK

Podcasts: WTF, Comedy Bang Bang, Professor Blastoff

Food: Di Fara pizza, Tibetan, Mexican, but pretty much anything
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The inadequacy of words to convey most things. Ideas for comedy sketches / short films that may or may not ever get made.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out at a show or performing...or watching movies, or at a neighborhood bar. Maybe at a house concert / pot luck / the awesome indian or tibetan joints in my neighborhood.
You should message me if
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You're open, affectionate and up for doing anything or nothing with the right person.