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45 Tacoma, WA Man


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  • Ages 21–45
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Last Online
Today – 7:38am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of space camp
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I may not have a good answer... I tend to be sciencey rather than touchy-feely, but I can appreciate and have elements of both. I'm not religious, and I can only respect other people's religion when it doesn't intrude on the people around them in rude and pushy ways. I believe in art and that people who know or understand amazing things can look like they have superpowers. I like science fiction, and for some strange reason, war movies. I hate war. I'm the liberal that the conservatives generally can't win an argument with. I can be emotionally immobilized by beauty - whether it's a landscape or a woman or a sensitive act or observation or a piece of music.

I would love to find a workout partner... I'm a member a the Y. I'll spot ya :-)

I am musical, hedonistic, and addictive. Oh, and not monogamous. I don't want to surprise anyone, and I don't make any promises I can't keep. I'm in a relationship, and although we don't go into all the details with each other, we're allowed to see/hang with/date/sleep with/whatever with other people.

Good for starters?
What I’m doing with my life
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For a living, I'm a freelance computer consultant and web and systems designer, technical analyst and SEO/SEM/online marketing guru. For sanity, I play drums with True Margrit, based in San Francisco. For fun, I like cooking, brewing beer, vinting (is that a real word?) wine, and gardening... I've got fruit trees and raised beds. In my spare time I do some community stuff and some activism, and I try to stay very well informed about current events and politics.
I’m really good at
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Being there when it really counts.
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Lord of the Rings, Thomas the Rhymer, David Brin's Uplift Trilogies, A People's History of the United States.

Movies: Galaxy Quest, Spirited Away, The Iron Giant, Lost In Translation, Little Man Tate, Rubin & Ed, Raising Arizona, Contact, Ghostbusters, A Fish Called Wanda, Bob Roberts, Lord of the Rings, Local Hero, Wall-E.

TV Shows: The Daily Show, (Early!) Scrubs, Battlestar Galactica, Fawlty Towers, Northern Exposure, Coupling, Frontline, Absolutely Fabulous, Good Eats, The Colbert Report, No Reservations, ST:TOS, ST:TNG, Real Time with Bill Maher, Bill Moyers' Journal, Breaking Bad, Avatar: The Last Airbender, Stargate SG-1, Friday Night Lights.

Music: XTC, Jethro Tull, Bill Frisell, True Margrit, Johnny Cash, The Beatles, Trilok Gurtu, Ozomatli, Paul Simon, Peter Gabriel, Kleptones, Talking Heads, David Byrne, Dire Straits, Mark Knopfler, The Who, Bjork, David Lindley
You should message me if
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you want to! I probably want you to ;-)