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30 F Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Aug 26
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm going to keep this simple; I love to laugh and can likely make you laugh, I have a knack for banter, I feel deep feelings, I write, I create, I dance, I have a winning smile, I can play like i'm 5, but talk with the wisdom of an old soul... I am sweet but have the ever neccessary edge of mischief. I'm kind and care about real connections.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
1. I have a degree in social work and I am a child and family therapist. I like to witness healing and changes through play/expression. I actually love my job...I feel passionate about it and I think kids are really special and often wiser than adults. ...also, they are hilarious. I am grateful I found the right profession for me!

2. I am a singer/songwriter. And, I am good at it, okay. This might scare people away because you might have to pretend you like my music. Let's just get this out of the way... youtube "Addie and the Subtrax" and either be honest with me about hating my music or love it... Regardless,
Let's start from a place of honesty. (:
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.

2. Leading

3. Laughing/making people laugh/one liners.

4. Being grounded.

5. Connecting/Listening

6. Speaking with passion/articulating my thoughts.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have really blue eyes...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Currently reading Catcher in the Rye.

I love East of Eden (if you want to discuss the themes in this book, please contact me...I mean, whoa!)

An always favorite is Gibran's "The Prophet", Mary Oliver, Rumi, Hafiz and on the other end Zealot and Pedagogy of the Opressed...need things that feed the heart and head!

Movies: Ones that make me laugh, ones that make me cry, ones that make me wonder, not ones that make me pee my pants.

Music: right now... Daft Punk, liykki li
Always...Joni Mitchell, Jazz/blues, anything with metaphors in both the lyrics and music, anything that is true.

Food: I'll try anything, but eat A LOT of Asian food!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
family, friends, guitar, singing, laughing, quality time with others, quality time with me, a pen and pad. (Yes I can count, I just like to break the rules)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
myself, others, how we relate, world views "what's going on", funny things to say, laws of attraction, injustice-how it make my tummy feel on fire and what to do about it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Kickin' it...either with others, or loving me some end of the week alone time. I need a healthy dose of friend time and me time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i do a mean elvis impersonation... have, since i was 9.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 26–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
See the "about me" section, does it speak to you?

People have lovingly called you quirky.
You are already in an awesome relationship with yourself.
You consider yourself "cozy" "cuddly" or "easygoing"
You are open and ready for something to unfold, authentically