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28 New Orleans, LA Genderqueer


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–45
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Sep 22
Asian, Native American, Pacific Islander
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and it’s important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Latin (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Imagine the Witch-King of Angmar in booty shorts and glitter. That's me in the summer; in winter, just the Witch-King.

I like almost every academic subject, and I like to think I know a little (or a lot) about them all. I like martial arts, and I'm becoming adept at Shaolin kung fu. I also like animals, but not as much as some people. I am idly thinking of getting some rats. I wish I could keep alive houseplants. I am interested in "alternative" lifestyles.

I'm not into monogamy, so you shouldn't be either. Although we can be friends. I have an inclusive and fluid perspective on relationships. But if you're actively looking for a LTR then someone else will probably make you happier than I would. However, if you want to have fun, trade secrets, or explore, I might be your boi.

And has anyone else had the experience that nobody looking for "New Friends" ever responds to those propositions?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to gain self-discipline and to find a way to make money without alchemically converting my own blood and spirit. Preferably by helping people, so I can get a little a that spirit returned.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at seeing through people's bullshit. And dressing up. I'm good at grasping nuance and abstract concepts. I'm good at debating. I'm bad at holding grudges, which I think means I'm good at shrugging things off.
And here are three more random things:
I'm good at being Genuine, because fuck fashion.
Drinking margaritas.
Dancing Enthusiastically: Because genius is 99% perspiration.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Is it too vain to say people notice how cute I am? Because that's my #1 feedback. #2 is people asking if I'm a boy or a girl.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Demian, Stranger in a Strange Land, The Jungle, Cat's Cradle, Master and Margarita, Siddhartha, Snow Crash, The Silmarillion, Violence and Belief in Late Antiquity, All About Love, Infinite Jest, Sex at Dawn, Imagined Communities, American Gods, The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle.

Movies: The Coconut Revolution, Lord of the Rings, Dr. Horrible's Sing-a-long Blog, Religulous, Pan's Labyrinth, Alien, all Cronenbergs, Black and White in Color, Yojimbo, Dead Man, Candyman, Brazil, They Live. Horror is my new deal.

TV: Sure sure, but let's talk about Caprica because I think it's the most underrated show ever.

Musik: I really like horns and electrons, and great vocals can mesmerize me. Also finally gotten into rap and hip-hop after avoiding them for a long time. It's a really amazing experience for me. No pop country. No thrash metal.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The Internet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think about the real fear in horror films, astrology/parapsychology, interesting character interactions, quantum magic, about who first tried to eat this stuff??, about the Golden Ass, about when postmodernism will implode, about class warfare, about alternative and outsider education, whether I know myself, whether gods are real but maybe elusive, what names I like and don't like, how to form a politically conscious community, rats, places I'd like to go, and NOTHING ELSE.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday nights I'm doing nothing too extreme because I've got to practice kung fu in the morning.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Super sensitive nipples
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are into alternative lifestyles, outcast communities, innovative approaches to life.

If you want to make a work date with me, for whatever project currently has you in its clutches.

If you like boys who are also girls.

If you want to explore New Orleans with me, especially places of horror.