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53 • New York, NY • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 35–51
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Yesterday – 7:09pm
- 5′ 5″ (1.65m)
- Body type
- Mostly vegan
- Graduated from Ph.D program
- Rather not say
- Likes cats
- English, Spanish (Okay), German (Poorly)
I spend my time figuring out entertaining ways to tell good stories and poke the bad guys. I am fortunate to have a terrific career, though am less interested in the money than the work that it makes possible. Would love to meet someone creative, adventurous, independent, femme or femme-ish, open to a relationship.
Packing lots of stuff in a small backpack for long trips.
Adventures in NYC and beyond
Also, I'm a bit obsessed with Don Quixote.
Music: WFUV-ish stuff.
Food: largely vegan. I love to cook.
(Or if you have thoughts on whether I should have just gone with "look for.")
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