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48 Wilmington, DE Man


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 37–52
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:01pm
Straight, Sapiosexual
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Graduated from masters program
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
English (Fluently), French (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
So here's me:

Decent, employed, educated, open minded, handsome, liberal, witty, interesting, funny, well travelled, subversive but not cynical, independent but empathetic, and I tend to question authority. Read: A Nice Guy.

But here's the thing:

Rightabout now, I just don't have the space in my life to start a serious dating situation. I have, however, met several decent women on this site, some of whom have been lovers, some have met my kids, a few have gone on vacations with me, a couple found their soul mates, some of those soul mates I have met, several are now Facebook friends.

So what I'd like to find through OKCupid:

Some local friends with whom I can share a laugh, a beer or coffee, a movie, or whatever regular people do, in a low stress situation, without a lot of fuss or driving hither and yon. I live in North Wilmington and I work near Christiana.

More about me:

I generally get along better with women than men because my interests do not include traditionally masculine things. I have ZERO interest in sports. But I am open to meeting anyone.
I used to be 100% Gallant, but I have learned to cherish my inner Goofus.
I am both City Mouse and Country Mouse, but I'm not so happy about suburbia, which is where I am. :-/

Does this sound like something you can deal with?
Then send me a message!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Clicking refresh on OKCupid!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I take a mighty fine selfie.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Pine fresh scent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Beatles
The Lord of The Rings, Kurt Vonnegut, Margaret Atwood, Tomi Ungerer, Tintin, Mississippi John Hurt, Cowboy Junkies, Ann Magnuson, Grateful Dead, "Exile on Main St.", Amelie and other foreign films, Indian food, ice cream in a cone on a summer night.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Try these instead: Six things I COULD live without

Casu Marzu
The Flowbee
Hypnic Jerks
Other Jerks
Bert's scary eyebrow
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
... my 1980s-era Jean Claude Van Damme perfect abs while I am flexing in the mirror.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When I was ten years old I ate a whole tube of Pringles and then vomited. Even today, the smell of Pringles makes me nauseous.
Some years later, a similar thing happened to me with bourbon.
You should message me if
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Your breath doesn't smell like Pringles and whiskey.