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48 M Wilmington, DE

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 37–52
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:13am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Atheism, and very serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
English (Fluently), French (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Summer's over. The living was easy, the fish all jumped and the cotton got high. It's time for a fresh start here on OKCupid. That means you get to see all new photos and read some new stuff, too. Lucky you!
So, Hi, and welcome to my page. I'm a decent, handsome, employed, educated, open minded, witty, fun, (did I say handsome?), interesting, well travelled fellow who'd like to meet new people and have an occasional fun evening when I don't have my kids.
I'm subversive but not cynical, and I appreciate the same.
Here's an OKCupid story:
I recently went on four OKC dates with four different women, and every date was a disaster of varying degree. I realized afterward that none of the women had children... It was like, none of them "got it". Free time for me is a precious commodity. Meeting up is not usually impulsive, it's not an afterthought.
So, all of you out there, I think you and I would get along better if you have your own kids, whether grown up or not.
But if you don't, and you like my little profile, drop me a line anyway cause you never know.
(However, if we meet, please don't text another guy in the restaurant bathroom and then tell me afterward that you don't need me around because you have this other guy coming over and he's really good in bed. And then give me details. <- True Story.)
More Fun Facts:
I love cities and I love being in the country, but I'm not so happy about suburbia, which is where I am. :-/
I left my ex 2 1/2 years ago and we maintain an amicable relationship. Right now, though, being married is too fresh in my mind to venture down that path.
So, I don't want to fix anyone or be fixed, and I don't want my next first kiss to be my last.
Being your soul mate, or even your sole mate, is completely unnecessary.
Does this sound like something you can deal with?
Then send me a message!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Clicking refresh on OKCupid!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I take a mighty fine selfie.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Pine fresh scent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Beatles
The Lord of The Rings, Kurt Vonnegut, Margaret Atwood, Tomi Ungerer, Tintin, Mississippi John Hurt, Cowboy Junkies, Ann Magnuson, Grateful Dead, "Exile on Main St.", Amelie and other foreign films, Indian food, ice cream in a cone on a summer night.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Local Man Tastes First Funnel Cake
Decides He Can Live Without It.

At the Arden Fair in Wilmington, Delaware, area resident adk46er surprised his daughter this weekend when he tasted her funnel cake. "It was good", he later told onlookers, "I especially liked the powered sugar. But it definitely does not make The Six Things I Could Not Do Without. I'm going to try some of the other stuff they got here, though." When later asked about her father's uninvited sampling, his daughter declared he had seriously embarrassed her, and suggested reparations of a supplemental funnel cake purchase. Adk46er was last seen waiting in line for kettle corn.


So I don't know what those six things are, but funnel cake is not one of them.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
... my 1980s-era Jean Claude Van Damme perfect abs while I am flexing in the mirror.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
... making you dinner, serenading you while giving you a neck rub, painting your portrait, fixing your transmission, engaging in epic battles with super villains, then flying home to watch the perfect chick flick under a shared blanket.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have great money making ideas, but they're all secret until I can get copyrights and patents.
Like six day underwear. It has three leg holes so you can fit your legs in three different ways (think about it). Then you flip it inside out, and get three more days!

And "Autocorrect: The Musical", featuring the song "The Sound of Mucus". (That's as far as I've gotten on that one).

But, Shhhhh. Don't tell.
You should message me if
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My dog (in the pictures) has wrinkly skin. He's territorial and he's been neutered. He chews with his mouth open and his breath is horrible. He flops on me when he sleeps and he pushes me to the edge of the bed.
You're not like that.