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48 • Wilmington, DE • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 37–52
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, short-term dating
- Last online
- Online now!
- Straight, Sapiosexual
- 6′ 0″ (1.83m)
- Body type
- Graduated from masters program
- Has kids, but doesn’t want more
- English (Fluently), French (Fluently)
I'm a Nice Guy; decent, employed, educated, open minded, handsome, non-creepy, liberal, witty, interesting, funny, subversive but not cynical, independent but empathetic. I've been around the world and I've lived abroad. I tend to question authority. A lot.
But here's the thing:
Rightabout now, I just don't have the space in my life to start a serious dating situation. I have, however, met several decent women on this site, some of whom have been lovers, some have met my kids, a few have gone on vacations with me, a couple found their soul mates, some of those soul mates I have met, several are now Facebook friends.
So what I'd like to find through OKCupid:
A local friend whom I can share a laugh, a beer or coffee, a movie or a park or that show you like on Netflix, or whatever regular people do, in a low stress situation, without a lot of fuss or driving hither and yon. I live in North Wilmington and I work near Christiana.
More about me:
I generally get along better with women than men because my interests do not include traditionally masculine things. I have ZERO interest in sports. But I am open to meeting anyone.
I used to be 100% Gallant, but I have learned to cherish my inner Goofus.
I am both City Mouse and Country Mouse, but I'm not so happy about suburbia, which is where I am. :-/
Google my username to learn of one of my greatest accomplishments.
Does this sound like something you can deal with?
Then send me a message!
The Lord of The Rings, Kurt Vonnegut, Margaret Atwood, Tomi Ungerer, Tintin, Mississippi John Hurt, Cowboy Junkies, Ann Magnuson, Grateful Dead, "Exile on Main St.", Amelie and other foreign films, Indian food, ice cream in a cone on a summer night.
Bert's scary eyebrow
Some years later, a similar thing happened to me with bourbon.
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