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47 M Wilmington, DE

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:23am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Atheism, and very serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
English (Fluently), French (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am witty, intelligent, handsome, fun, loving, and fun loving. I am well traveled, I have a decent job, I earn my own money and pay my bills on time. I grow hair on my head and not on my back and I sport two front teeth. I used to live abroad. I used to be more daring back in the day, hitchhiking and jumping off high cliffs into freezing water. Now I have two children and a dog. Sometimes my jokes are followed by the sound of crickets (ask my children). I'm a rare mix of both Country Mouse and City Mouse who lives in the suburbs, which is neither!

Full disclosure = I still jump off cliffs occasionally.

Still reading? You may Google my username to learn more of my massive accomplishments...
Update = I've been on and off this site for more than a year and I have not answered a single OKC question since I first signed up. Maybe my answers no longer reflect who I am? Maybe I'm a little more realistic or mature (or jaded)? Hmm. I guess I should take another shot at them when I have time to kill. In the meantime, don't be put off if the percentages don't match.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Clicking refresh on OKCupid!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
... Selfies !
... Embarrassing offspring with my existence.
... Traveling, navigating public transportation in new places where I might not know the language, flossing every day, using my bicycle to do local errands, listening, being a father.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Pine fresh scent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Beatles
The Lord of The Rings, Kurt Vonnegut, Margaret Atwood, Tomi Ungerer, Tintin, Mississippi John Hurt, Cowboy Junkies, Ann Magnuson, Grateful Dead, "Exile on Main St.", Amelie and other foreign films, Indian food, ice cream in a cone on a summer night.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The smell of cinnamon, the feel of clean sheets, the taste of dark chocolate, seeing unexpected snowfall weighing down the branches making the outside completely quiet, the sound of a waterfall or waves or rain on the roof, a cool summer night far from the city wrapped in a blanket laying on the deck watching stars with a whippoorwill calling, my health, people who read this far and mention it when messaging me, my uvula, my children, my dog who's really an ass but I still love him, gravity, time, food, air, my iPhone, the internet, caffeine and waking up to a clean kitchen.

Put all ingredients in a large mixing bowl, beat gently with slotted spoon, bake until inserted knife comes out clean.

Cut into six equal portions. Serve with a generous dollop of whipped cream and snow days.

Voila! The six things I could never do without.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
... my 1980s-era Jean Claude Van Damme perfect abs while I am flexing in the mirror. (sound of crickets)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
... making you dinner, serenading you while giving you a neck rub, painting your portrait, fixing your transmission, engaging in epic battles with super villains, then flying home to watch the perfect chick flick under a shared blanket.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
... I am a Cumbercookie. (Let's make a Batch.)
... I have a killer cowlick that just won't quit. (I'm talking about my hair.)
... I own crocs. Be nice, or I'll wear them on our first date.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 37–52
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are subversive but not cynical.
You're willing to take a risk, jump off that cliff, you're daring, you've got balls. (Um, ignore that last part.)