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55 San Clemente, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 33–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 20
Asian, Middle Eastern, Black, Native American, Indian, Pacific Islander, Hispanic / Latin, White, Other
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Wow. Another essay. I thought I said it all in my headline. ;) Who am I? Skipping the existential – I am a great dad, son, brother & friend, employer and mentor. I come from a normal family with parents that have been married for more than 50 years. I have lived all over the country as well as overseas and I think this gives me a broad perspective.
I appreciate simplicity, elegance, nature, the finer things in life but I am not impressed with pretentiousness, conspicuous consumption or ostentatiousness.
I try to stay informed about the world around us. I believe in tolerance, staying fit and eating right and don’t mind getting my hands dirty working in the yard, repairing something broken around the house, or helping a friend out with a project.
I am a bit of a romantic, a nostalgic and a problem solver.
I am also an aficionado, endlessly curious and observant. I have opinions but remain open minded and ready to learn. I am a communicator and a listener. I love to be in motion and can relax with the best of them. I tend to follow my own path but feel comfortable in most any setting. I am loyal, trustworthy, honest (former boy scout),etc. and a gentleman. I want to be the best I can be and work at it in work, play and life in general. I am easy going and can get along with most anyone but prefer the company of loved ones, family and close friends. Quietly confident with a wonderful sense of humor.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to make a difference. I am fortunate enough to be in a line of work that helps people - families and communities. It feels good to be doing something that has some redemptive value. I also get to develop / mentor the people that work for me. All of this makes me passionate about my work. I am equally busy raising two teens and attempting to instill in them good values, a work ethic and provide them with a solid foundation for their futures all the while combating the cross currents of materialism and entitlement that seems so pervasive in our society. just doin' my part. LOL
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I seem to have a knack for wine.
problem solving, but please no rescues.
being positive
stir fry - good in the kitchen
causing laughter - I can be very funny
The first things people usually notice about me
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I guess?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I work out every week, swim each week (pool, heated, outdoor W/hot showers ;) gym, hike, ski, body surf, boogie board, snorkel, bike, tennis, golf (novice), I am not an adrenaline junkie. just staying fit and healthy.

I enjoy reading - periodicals, newspaper online edition, books on science - Guns, Germs & Steel. whew that was some work.
biographies, John Adams, Truman, fiction, quarterly earnings reports, financial statements. I know...

I have lots of favorite movies. I love music especially live maybe something fun to dance too.

I enjoy good food that's fresh and well prepared, healthy eating, local if possible, seasonal. There's a farmer in the family.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, Friends, Freedom
Love, Happiness, Food, Water, Air
Phone, Purpose
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My kids.
The business.
The future.
Wondering if you'll find me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
End of the week I'm generally chilling with my kids and saving up for Saturday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Some things are simply not fodder for the web.
You should message me if
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you would like to meet.