admpj
56 San Clemente, CA
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My self-summary
Wow. Another essay. I thought I said it all in my headline. ;) Who am I? Skipping the existential – I am a great dad, son, brother & friend, Mentor, and more... I come from a normal family with parents that have been married for more than 50 years. I have lived all over the country as well as overseas.
I appreciate simple elegance, nature, the company of a good woman and some of the finer things in life but I am not impressed with pretentiousness, conspicuous consumption or ostentatiousness.
I try to stay informed about the world around us. I believe in tolerance, staying fit and eating right and don’t mind getting my hands dirty working in the yard, repairing something broken around the house, or helping a friend out with a project.
I am a bit of a romantic, a nostalgic and a problem solver.
I am also an aficionado, endlessly curious and observant. I have opinions but remain open minded and ready to learn. I am a communicator and a listener. I love to be in motion and can relax with the best of them. I tend to follow my own path but feel comfortable in most any setting. I am loyal, trustworthy, honest (former boy scout),etc. and a gentleman. I want to be the best I can be and work at it in work, play and life in general. I am easy going and can get along with most anyone but prefer the company of loved ones, family and close friends. Quietly confident with a wonderful sense of humor.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to make a difference. I am fortunate enough to have the opportunity to develop / mentor colleagues
I'm passionate about my work. I am equally busy raising two teens and instilling in them good values, a work ethic and prepare them for their futures all the while combating the cross currents of materialism and entitlement that seems so pervasive in our society. just doin' my part. LOL
I’m really good at
Communicating
observation
problem solving, but please no rescues.
being positive
parenting
good in the kitchen
I seem to have a knack for wine.
causing laughter - I can be very funny
The first things people usually notice about me
eyes, smile,
hair - so I've been told
physique
personality
I'm better in person
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I work out every week, swim each week (pool, heated, outdoor W/hot showers ;) gym, hike, ski, body surf, boogie board, snorkel, bike, tennis, golf (novice), I am not an adrenaline junkie. just staying fit and healthy.

I enjoy reading - periodicals, newspaper online edition, books on science - Guns, Germs & Steel. whew that was some work.
biographies, John Adams, Truman, fiction, quarterly earnings reports, financial statements. I know...

I have lots of favorite movies. I love music especially live maybe something fun to dance too.

I enjoy good food that's fresh and well prepared, healthy eating, local if possible, seasonal. There's a farmer in the family.
The six things I could never do without
Family, Friends, Freedom & Finance
Love, Happiness, Food, Water, Air
Phone, Purpose
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My kids.
The business.
The future.
Wondering if.
On a typical Friday night I am
End of the week I'm generally chilling with my kids and saving up for Saturday night. Exceptions granted.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Some things are simply not fodder for the web.
You should message me if
You are healthy and fit, have your own means and you would like to meet an honest to goodness gentleman who has his sh*t together. Seriousness aside. I am fit, funny, intelligent, sexy, affectionate, self maintained, and looking for an awesome lady who is quality as well and recognizes same. Thank you for stopping by.
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