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54 M San Clemente, CA

My Details

Last Online
Feb 20
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Wow. Another essay. I thought I said it all in my headline. ;) Who am I? Skipping the existential – I am a great dad, son, brother & friend, employer and mentor. I come from a normal family with parents that have been married for more than 50 years. I have lived all over the country as well as overseas and I think this gives me a broad perspective.
I appreciate simplicity, elegance, nature, the finer things in life but I am not impressed with pretentiousness, conspicuous consumption or ostentatiousness.
I try to stay informed about the world around us. I believe in tolerance, staying fit and eating right and don’t mind getting my hands dirty working in the yard, repairing something broken around the house, or helping a friend out with a project.
I am a bit of a romantic, a nostalgic and a problem solver.
I am also an aficionado, endlessly curious and observant. I have opinions but remain open minded and ready to learn. I am a communicator and a listener. I love to be in motion and can relax with the best of them. I tend to follow my own path but feel comfortable in most any setting. I am loyal, trustworthy, honest (former boy scout),etc. and a gentleman. I want to be the best I can be and work at it in work, play and life in general. I am easy going and can get along with most anyone but prefer the company of loved ones, family and close friends. Quietly confident with a wonderful sense of humor.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to make a difference. I am fortunate enough to be in a line of work that helps people - families and communities. It feels good to be doing something that has some redemptive value. I also get to develop / mentor the people that work for me. All of this makes me passionate about my work. I am equally busy raising two kids and attempting to instill in them good values, a work ethic and provide them with a solid foundation for their futures all the while combating the cross currents of materialism and entitlement that seems so pervasive in our society.
I’m really good at
I wish I could say I was good at everything but I'm not. That translates into opportunity for improvement. I am good at selecting wines, growing tomatoes and grilling fish. I am also good at solving problems. This requires patience and good listening skills so I am good at this as well. I am good at teaching and being objective. I have other talents too and some of course I will save for later.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have pondered and have no answer. Perhaps you can tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A couple of my all time favorite books are John Adams and Power Shift. I have lots of favorite movies. I love music but I am a better listener than performer. I was once asked what 10 albums would I want if I were stranded on a desert island. I selected as many of my favorite double albums as possible - The Who's - Quadraphenia, Led Zeppelin's - Physical Graffiti, Pink Floyd's - The Wall, Bruce Springsteen's - The River, there would have to be some Marley, some U2, some Mellencamp, the list goes on....
The six things I could never do without
Family, Friends, Freedom
Love, Happiness, Food, Water, Air
Phone, Purpose
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My kids.
The business.
The future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Typical is not what typical was.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Some things are simply not fodder for the web.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 33–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating