If your profile says that you're only interested in single guys, or that you're only interested in making friends, then friendship is all I'm looking for from you. If I send you a message and you are only interested in single guys but didn't take the time to check the 'must be single' box then...I'm sorry? :-/
I am shy when it comes to meeting new people. If you see me checking out your profile multiple times, odds are I'm trying to work up the courage to send you a message. :)
My wife and I do date separately and are not searching for a "unicorn." We are happy to date together, but it's not necessary for us, and we would never ask anyone to take an exclusive secondary role. I know this isn't exactly clear, so feel free to message me if you have any questions about it.
Also, if you don't support civil rights and gay rights, we should probably avoid one another. Otherwise, I'm not too picky about politics.
I do have ADD and I take quite a few meds to manage it and the comorbid disorders (dysthymia and generalized anxiety). Because of this, I cannot drink or do drugs. I am also sensitive to cigarette and marijuana smoke. I swear I'm not a straight edge; I don't look down on people who do any of the above as long as they don't look down on me.