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25 M Chester, NH

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:39pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Not at all
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Italian (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I am a full time student living in Chester, NH. My wife and I have had an open marriage for nearly a year now; we are both polyamorous (poly) and still exploring what that means for both of us.

If your profile says that you're only interested in single guys, or that you're only interested in making friends, then friendship is all I'm looking for from you. If I send you a message and you are only interested in single guys but didn't take the time to check the 'must be single' box then...I'm sorry? :-/

I am shy when it comes to meeting new people. If you see me checking out your profile multiple times, odds are I'm trying to work up the courage to send you a message. :)

My wife and I do date separately and are not searching for a "unicorn." We are happy to date together, but it's not necessary for us, and we would never ask anyone to take an exclusive secondary role. I know this isn't exactly clear, so feel free to message me if you have any questions about it.

Also, if you don't support civil rights and gay rights, we should probably avoid one another. Otherwise, I'm not too picky about politics.

I do have ADD and I take quite a few meds to manage it and the comorbid disorders (dysthymia and generalized anxiety). Because of this, I cannot drink or do drugs. I am also sensitive to cigarette and marijuana smoke. I swear I'm not a straight edge; I don't look down on people who do any of the above as long as they don't look down on me.
What I’m doing with my life
I am currently working on a bachelors of psychology with hopes of getting into a medical school. Meanwhile, I live with my wife and our adorable puppy.
I’m really good at
being awkward I suppose?
The first things people usually notice about me
Online, the first thing people notice is that my messages are long. I don't expect replies to be as long; feel free to reply only to your favorite parts and ignore the rest. I won't take it personally. :)

In person, my height oddly enough; though I don't think six feet is all that tall. After that it's my hair, because it is very fluffy. After that, it's my deadpan sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite books run the gamut of fantasy fiction (such as books by Terry Pratchett or the Harry Potter series) to scientific (books by Daniel Goleman and such).

I'm a nerd, so I like superhero movies (current favorite is Avengers, naturally).

My wife and I watch Once Upon a Time. I love anything by Joss Whedon though I have sadly not seen Buffy, or Angel, or Dollhouse...I'm a terrible fan.

I have very eclectic tastes in music. My current favorite band is Imagine Dragons, but there's no type of music I don't listen to.

My favorite food is Italian. I'm really not picky with food though. I don't like anything excessively bitter, I don't eat pickles or olives...that's about it. I am otherwise omnivorous.

Hobbies (this should be a section anyway): I'm a huge D&D geek (4th edition), but I also play Magic the Gathering and GURPS. I'm terrible at video games but I play them anyway.

Non-geeky things I like are hiking, ultimate frisbee, and getting lost in new cities and towns.
The six things I could never do without
1. Snuggling
2. Internet
3. Phone
4. Reeses PB cups
5. Humor
6. A cool/cold room to sleep in. I can't sleep in the heat.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
New ways to make people laugh, sex, what I'm studying in school, plans for the future, how to achieve perpetual motion, how to derive a limit-based equation from e^(i*pi)-1=0, new adventures for D&D, how I can expand my interests beyond the nerd world, gender, sexuality, ethics...
On a typical Friday night I am
Honestly, getting ready for a twelve hour shift the next day. I work three shifts from 5 am to 6 pm on Saturday, Sunday and Monday. Students have to make a living somehow.

During the week I'm more free. I currently play D&D and occasionally Magic the Gathering, but I'm also really interested in trying out new activities.

Also, if anyone wants to play a game of ultimate frisbee, I will so be there.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
There are naked pictures of me hiding on the internet (please don't go looking for them).
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 19–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
1. You are poly and want to be friends or more.
2. You are not poly and want to be friends (I believe this is called poly friendly).

As of right now, I'm not actively pursuing more interests. I'm still up for making new friends, and I'm certainly not opposed to being pursued. Just know that if *I* initiate contact with *you*, then it's on a purely friendly basis. :)