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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–45
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 9:44pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs
English, Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi! I've been in San Francisco for a few years now and have met some amazing friends. I'm definitely looking to expand my social circle and see what else happens. I enjoy the outdoors, concerts, movies, theater, awesome restaurants...well, just about anything with good company!

I have been in a few long-term relationships over the years with amazing, handsome, successful, intelligent men (the last being about 5 years long and ended 3 years ago). Of course, we weren't the right folks for each other or heck, I wouldn't be here! I have learned tremendously from each of these experiences and I'm excited to see what the future holds. A key conclusion I've derived from this is that while I'm relationship oriented, getting to know someone well prior to jumping-in is paramount.

I appreciate many combinations of the following qualities: Intelligent, handsome, caring, enjoys some combination of gym time and/or run, bike or swim, good communicator, is a good friend, positive attitude, seeks to understand, has compassion and empathy for those that haven't been as fortunate... That being said, I could only ever articulate 50% of the qualities that result in attraction. At the end of the day, the relationships I've been in have just happened because they were meant to be. It didn't require a lot of thought, force or analytics. It just happened easily. I expect the same will occur when next it happens.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm loving what every new twist and turn brings. As I've mentioned, the latest twist has brought me to San Francisco. I work for a well known biotech company on the peninsula and it's been a great experience for which I'm very grateful. I frequently have to work more hours than I would like, but I'm always striving to establish a healthy balance. In whatever I do, be it professional or personal, I always try to do my best and give it my all.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
getting a sense of people fairly quickly. Which leads me to the other thing I'm really good at...ignoring my gut for a handsome face. Doh! Haha! At least it keeps it interesting.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Well, when I'm walking or running my dog, it's that he has two different color eyes!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Movies -definitely love movies but I also rarely remember the content of what I've seen two weeks after I've seen it. Haha!

TV - to be honest, I only watch it socially which is rare. I do invite friends over for netflix or apple TV nights occasionally. If I know a TV show, it's usually because I've watched it on a plane. I do have a nice new TV hanging on the wall though! Consider it post-modern art (Art smarties - please don't get all specific with my choice of genres, it's just a joke).

Food - Let's get this out of the way. Yes, I'm a vegetarian and it's been for over 20 years. I don't give a damn what you choose to eat and have never been in a serious relationship with a vegetarian. Simply know that I am and be respectful of that. Enough said.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My friends/family (they are pretty much one in the same)
My dog - His name is Navi
Memories of my experiences and those in my life who've passed on
Being active outside
Warm summers (oh wait... never mind. Haha! At least all I have to do is get in the car)
I shall leave number six blank for now. (oh wait... it just occurred to me that I would have a very hard time living without NPR. Love my KQED, KCFR and WBEZ).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
just about everything. Analyze, rinse, repeat. Ha! I've also learned a lot from friends recently who are amazing at living in the moment and just experiencing the present. It's a careful balance.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I wear my heart on my sleeve.
You should message me if
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* You love dogs
* Enjoy being outdoors and active, but can also: clean it up, bring it inside and have an intelligent conversation
* Are emotionally available
* Have a positive attitude and find enjoyment in the day-to-day
* Value monogamy (when in a committed relationship), loyalty and respect

Don't message me if: You are selfish or narcissistic