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41 • San Francisco, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–45
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Online now!
- 5′ 8″ (1.73m)
- Body type
- Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from Ph.D program
- Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
- Has dogs
- English, Spanish (Poorly)
I have been in a few long-term relationships over the years with amazing, handsome, successful, intelligent men (the last being about 5 years long and ended 3 years ago). Of course, we weren't the right folks for each other or heck, I wouldn't be here! I have learned tremendously from each of these experiences and I'm excited to see what the future holds. A key conclusion I've derived from this is that while I'm relationship oriented, getting to know someone well prior to jumping-in is paramount.
I appreciate many combinations of the following qualities: Intelligent, handsome, caring, enjoys some combination of gym time and/or run, bike or swim, good communicator, is a good friend, positive attitude, seeks to understand, has compassion and empathy for those that haven't been as fortunate... That being said, I could only ever articulate 50% of the qualities that result in attraction. At the end of the day, the relationships I've been in have just happened because they were meant to be. It didn't require a lot of thought, force or analytics. It just happened easily. I expect the same will occur when next it happens.
TV - to be honest, I only watch it socially which is rare. I do invite friends over for netflix or apple TV nights occasionally. If I know a TV show, it's usually because I've watched it on a plane. I do have a nice new TV hanging on the wall though! Consider it post-modern art (Art smarties - please don't get all specific with my choice of genres, it's just a joke).
Food - Let's get this out of the way. Yes, I'm a vegetarian and it's been for over 20 years. I don't give a damn what you choose to eat and have never been in a serious relationship with a vegetarian. Simply know that I am and be respectful of that. Enough said.
My dog - His name is Navi
Memories of my experiences and those in my life who've passed on
Being active outside
Warm summers (oh wait... never mind. Haha! At least all I have to do is get in the car)
I shall leave number six blank for now. (oh wait... it just occurred to me that I would have a very hard time living without NPR. Love my KQED, KCFR and WBEZ).
* Enjoy being outdoors and active, but can also: clean it up, bring it inside and have an intelligent conversation
* Are emotionally available
* Have a positive attitude and find enjoyment in the day-to-day
* Value monogamy (when in a committed relationship), loyalty and respect
Don't message me if: You are selfish or narcissistic
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