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adventureben77

28 / M / straight / Single

Brooklyn, New York

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Casual sex
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Sign
Taurus but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am silly, potato, and nuts.

My Self-Summary

i lived outside for a few years, now i've been in brooklyn for a few years. i love and miss them both. i have worked with kids for the last 10 years or so, in some capacity. um, what else, i love juice. whatever, i don't know what to say. I'm a burly type fella with lots of tattoos. I like to read books and write stories and poems. I've been on this site for maybe too long. on the up side, i have met some of my best friends on here though.

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What I’m doing with my life

i teach 10th grade.

climbing stuff, riding my bike. educating myself. reading books.

i work for a (very liberal and controversial)church and give my time to promoting inclusive love and gay rights causes. we got a blog i write on sometimes too. www.revolutionnycblog.com i also make zines.

I’m really good at

a lot of stuff, but i forget a lot of it if i'm not doing it, i more like to do stuff whether i'm good at it or not.

outdoor stuff/ surviving

riding my bike/ climbing stuff

um, challenge education is something i'm pretty good at.

reading people

tying people up.

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The first things people usually notice about me

eyes, silly facial hair, tattoos?

sometimes people think i look intimidating, but then prove to be a teddy bear, and sometimes it seems that it is the other way around.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

books: Great Gatsby, Messy Spirituality, On the Road, Visions of Cody, One Flew over the cuckoos nest, (most things BEAT), Get in the Van, Howl. I really like the Beat Authors and it seems that i am into Bukowski.

movies: The Godfather, Helima, Escape form New York, Science of Sleep, Dream Life of Angels, Life is Beautiful, You, me and everyone we know, mostly quirky slice of life sorta stuff.

Music: beirut, humm, lots of gypsy folk music lately. i like the way it makes me feel. Sigur Ros, Hem, Beirut, hawk and a hacksaw, leadbelly, Black Flag, Godspeed you Black Emperior, Mountain goats, iron and wine, what cheer? brigade

( i grew up on a heavy diet of punk rock, Youth Crew and tough guy Hardcore and Queen. these days i am really into folk music and instrumental stuff.)

food: i love Currys. Indian, Thai, and the like. i can count the times i have eaten Pasta on one hard since college. I love veggies. and i do a lot of cooking.

TV: Penn & Teller's BULLSHIT!, HEROS, 30 Rock, scrubs, Stand up, Upright Citizens Birgade.

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The six things I could never do without

climbing, cooking, hugs, riding my bike, music, Bert's bees chap stick

I spend a lot of time thinking about

life, the universe, and everything else

religion/ faith

magic tricks

if i can get away with not wearing shoes

why can't i find a girl who plays the accordion?

should i stay in NY or move to the mountains?

On a typical Friday night I am

you tell me?

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

i used to think i was a robot.

i want a girl that likes to pick at blackheads.

You should message me if

you are amused by this in the least.

you are equally willing to go to a monster truck rally, a good movie or a show. all non-ironically.

actually if you don't do things to be ironic, that would be good.

you think you can blow me away with your amazingness.

you want to go on a bike ride, and think you can keep up.

your ok with my polyness.

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