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adventuring_1

52 La Crescenta, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:36pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
$150,000–$250,000
Status
Single
Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English, German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I take good care of my mind, body and soul and have confidence derived from knowing who I am, where I want to go and the things I want to do in life. Super energetic, easy going with a quick wit, I live from the heart (even though my head still gets in the way sometimes). My passion - and the way I make my living - is helping others to find and live theirs. Passion really is the key to everything I do.

While I am strong, chivalrous, kind and active, I am not your typical guy. For example, while I like to play sports, I'm not one to sit around guzzling beer, farting it up while watching the weekend game on TV with my buddies. I'd much rather be out there pushing the limit and seeing what I can do and what else is possible. So you're more likely to find me jumping out a plane, skiing down a mountain, diving under the sea, roaring down the highway or pumping iron in the gym. No worries - I won't expect you to do the adrenaline evoking adventures with me (though I'll always invite you), I'd be happy to just share the stories with you later as I massage your shoulders in a candle lit bubble bath over a bottle of champagne.

The really good news is that I've already done a lot of work on myself, so you can now reap the rewards. Having grown up without a father in my life, I had to figure out what it meant to be a man. As a result, I sought out the best mentors, books and workshops and figured how to be a great father, friend and lover. Sure, I still screw it up from time-to-time, but I am am very self-aware, compassionate and tapped into my spiritual side. All of my self-exploration has made me loyal, honest, happy and strong.

I enjoy a broad range of activities - planned and spontaneous, cerebral and action oriented. To me, it's all about the experience, and I want to do, see and try as many things as possible while I still can. I'm down for the travel and adventure as well as for the romantic dinners , great conversation and all night dancing. I am looking for that one special woman who is willing and open to exploration, fulfilling fantasies and living an extraordinary life.

My flaws? Well, I can be a little too candid and I speak my mind sometimes when I should hold my tongue. Words can hurt, I know. I love to play and banter - a lot - and some tell me that I need to be more serious (to which I respond, "But why??"). I am very driven and can be demanding of myself. Sometimes this quest for excellence bleeds over onto others. However, I really try to stay aware of this and I actually value the axiom, "live and let live." I also leave the seat down, don't always make the bed and can be impatient. But, hopefully none of these things are deal breakers.

My perfect match? She is an outgoing, sexy, smart, playful woman who is enjoying the journey as much as I am and who is also spiritual, passionate, affectionate and appreciative. She wants a man who she can respect and admire and who will, in turn, cherish and adore her like the Goddess she is. Together we'll co-create a relationship filled with ease and flow and fun. We'll have each other's backs and constantly support the other to become the best version of themself. As a starting point, here's a really good qualifier: do you believe that the passion and excitement of a new relationship can last forever? If you answered "Hell yes!," then we should definitely meet and explore the possibilities.

P.S. - pix are recent, age is actual, and my words authentic.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying it!
- Coaching others to figure out their calling and purpose.
- Publishing my first book on how to create time & space for personal passions & life/work balance
- Taking improv classes
- Intermittently taking salsa lessons
- Using the Law of Attraction to find you
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Having fun, helping others, writing, skiing, travel, playing, working out, organizing, teaching/coaching, conversing, listening, and self-improvement.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The smile in my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Love to take in all types of performing arts (plays, musicals, symphonies, opera - you name it). Enjoy a wide range of music but prefer if it has an "edge." The books I read are predominantly about consciousness, love, and self-improvement (i.e., The Untethered Soul, The Way of the Superior Man, The Seven Laws of Intimacy, Manifesting Change, A Return to Love, The Power of Now, etc.) but I do read an occasional suspense, biography or drama.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Health
My drive & determination
Open, honest communication
Good, hard workouts
Humor
Love & intimacy
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What else I'd like to try and experience in life. Though I've checked a lot off already, my bucket list still includes: seeing the Northern Lights, visiting Australia & diving the Great Barrier Reef, learning to salsa dance, doing a national book signing tour, and someday having $18,175, 328.13 in my bank account.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It depends - anything from hanging with friends to a fun weekend get-away.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Damn, haven't I said enough already?! Well, if you've read this far, maybe not. Go ahead and ask me anything....
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...you're affectionate, fun, relatively fit and outgoing. Your primary language of love is touch and life turns you on. You're seeking a loyal and honorable man who is fit and fun with a high EQ and a little bit of grit. You seek the extraordinary.