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42 M Asheville, NC

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:19pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
English (Fluently), French (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
So, what would you like to know about me? Really? Everything?!?!? No, you can' t be serious...
I' m the strongest man in the world... HAHAHAHA. Well, not quite. I am sensitive, open, warm and at time, even vulnerable... And i can communicate that pretty well. I know what I need, what I want and I know how to express that as well. This is my strength, communication. I was in an open relationship for 11 years. I do believe that this is a more civilized and honest arrangement between two people who really love, respect and honor each others in every aspects. To say nothing of trust, transparency and intimacy. However, I am not saying this implying that i am necessarily looking for an open relationship. I say this to give you some background context. I am NOT looking for a relationship who nurture jealousy, passive aggressiveness and co-dependance but the exact opposite. A real, deep open relating one.
I love being alive, my body, the universe, my breath and that they are working in unison.
I don' t always know how to behave properly and follow all the damn rules. I have very soft skin. Honesty, with myself and others is essential to me. I drink my lemonade right from the jug but my wine in the right glass. I lived in New York; Manhattan and Brooklyn; for 13 years. Living in Asheville for 4 and I love it here. I love kale and everything green which doesn't mean that I am a vegetarian. I love being barefoot and feel the soft skin of the earth under my feet and the softness and warmness of your body under the palm of my hand. Dr. Seuss, singing too loudly, gallivanting, palindromes, japanese haiku, blackberries, blueberries, strawberries... Jean ferrat, Leo ferret, barbara ( french singers), magic tricks ( I love the ones by the universe ) and in no particular order elephants, giraffes and dolphins. I have been charged with (and found guilty of) daydreaming, contemplating and questioning. When I am not doing the later ( all of them at once sometimes... I know, it is a malady), you can find me practicing yoga, running in the woods, dancing silly in my bedroom, devouring a book, planting seeds of unheard beauty in the soil of my mind and heart, changing the world, cooking and doing my dishes. I don' t play the accordion, even though i am french, but if you like food then... I am on my way to becoming a fabulous yoga teacher, an imperfect... yoga teacher, a mediocre writer ( as well you can see ) and a compassionate, unitary and understanding friend to all. I am a very good listener. Like Thoreau, I am a self-appointed inspector of snowstorms, rainstorms and thunderstorms, one the universe grandiose, colorful display of strength, benevolence and beauty. This year I aspire to finally live in the present, just the present and only the present.

There is no way possible that I could ever get you to understand who I am through just a few sentences. I have been through a lot in my life that has changed me in many ways. It seems that if something is meant to be, than it will be. Its all a mystery to me and what better way to go through life than, as Walt Whitman wrote, be "both in and out of the game and watching and wondering at it" at the same time. Living it fully and observing it, be the witness of it all. I love this universe and this amazing human experience and do my best to embrace it all... the good, the bad, the ugly and the beautiful.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living it... Living full and honest. Enjoying it!!! Savoring it!!!
Life is movement, fluctuation and change... I am just enchanted, spellbound, by the magic and beauty of it all.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I won' t bore you with all my countless talents and abilities... : )
Listening, holding space.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My gracefulness...(?) That I am present. That I am not from here... The truth is that I don' t really know and I don' t care.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Why don' t they ever ask about art in those things?

No tv, ever. I don't even own one. I find the version of "reality" coming out of that think quite manipulating and nauseating.

I love to read! I read anything and everything. If you say that reading is boring then I'll assume you aren't an interesting person. Or that you aren't smart. I have a couple of books going all the time. This past year I read all of Haruki Murakami. Just fall in love with his writing, the same way I did with Hermann Hesse & Milan Kundera for example. I am also a big fan of Sci Fi and Fantasy novels. Right now on my side bed table: Iain M BanKs, Jed Mckenna, De Sade and Bernadette Roberts.

The world is too much with us; late and soon,
Getting and spending, we lay waste our powers:
Little we see in Nature that is ours;
We have given our hearts away, a sordid boon!
This Sea that bares her bosom to the moon;
The winds that will be howling at all hours,
And are up-gathered now like sleeping flowers;
For this, for everything, we are out of tune,
It moves us not.--Great God! I'd rather be
A Pagan suckled in a creed outworn;
So might I, standing on this pleasant lea,
Have glimpses that would make me less forlorn;
Have sight of Proteus rising from the sea;
Or hear old Triton blow his wreathed horn.
William Wordsworth

Nina Simone

Barbara ( French singer )
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I could probably live without much besides food, shelter and clothes but what would be the point of that? It is all a question of balance, right? So, here is a non all inclusive list.
Nature, breathing, yoga, love, books, relationships, music, sex, hugs and kisses... Why only six? Oh a last one, solitude... Ok more movement, stillness...ART... Laughing. Oh and chocolate!! My kingdom for a chocolate truffle!! YEAH!!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
No seriously...!?!?!?!? No way!!!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
ANYwhere, EVERYwhere, NO-where , SOMEwhere... I guess... HAHAHAHA. Sometimes, I just got tire answering silly questions.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm very much an open book and therefore there isn't really anything that i won't admit. I have no reason to be ashamed of who i am. I like me :)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are curious and like to explore possibilities.
If you are well grounded and know yourself very well.
If when i say " the ethical slut " you know what I am talking about; but if you don' t, ask me as I like to talk about these things.
Why not?