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42 M Asheville, NC

My Details

Last Online
Jul 20
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
English (Fluently), French (Fluently)

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My self-summary
So, what would you like to know about me? Really? Everything?!?!? No, you can' t be serious...
I' m the strongest man in the world... HAHAHAHA. Well, not quite. I am sensitive, open, warm and at time, even vulnerable... And i can communicate that pretty well. I know what I need, what I want and I know how to express that as well. This is my strength, communication. I was in an open relationship for 11 years. I do believe that this is a more civilized and honest arrangement between two people who really love, respect and honor each others in every aspects. To say nothing of trust, transparency and intimacy. This been said, if it is not a deal breaker for you, please keep reading.
i' m the love child of a French queen with her head firmly on her shoulder. I don' t always know how to behave properly and follow all the damn rules. I have very soft skin. Honesty, with myself and others is essential to me. I drink my lemonade right from the jug but my wine in the right glass. I lived in New York; Manhattan and Brooklyn; for 13 years. Living in Asheville for 4 and I love it here. I love kale and everything green which doesn't mean that I am a vegetarian. I love being barefoot and feel the soft skin of the earth under my feet and the softness and warmness of your body under the palm of my hand. Dr. Seuss, singing too loudly, gallivanting, palindromes, japanese haiku, blackberries, blueberries, strawberries... Jean ferrat, Leo ferret, barbara ( french singers), magic tricks ( I love the ones by the universe ) and in no particular order elephants, giraffes and dolphins. I have been charged with (and found guilty of) daydreaming, contemplating and questioning. When I am not doing the later ( all of them at once sometimes... I know, it is a malady), you can find me practicing yoga, running in the woods, dancing silly in my bedroom, devouring a book, planting seeds of unheard beauty in the soil of my mind and heart, changing the world, cooking and doing my dishes. I don' t play the accordion, even though i am french, but if you like food then... I am on my way to becoming a fabulous yoga teacher, an imperfect... yoga teacher, a mediocre writer ( as well you can see ) and a compassionate, unitary and understanding friend to all. I am a very good listener. Like Thoreau, I am a self-appointed inspector of snowstorms, rainstorms and thunderstorms, one the universe grandiose, colorful display of strength, benevolence and beauty. This year I aspire to finally live in the present, just the present and only the present.
There is no way possible that I could ever get you to understand who I am through just a few sentences. I have been through a lot in my life that has changed me in many ways. It seems that if something is meant to be, than it will be. Its all a mystery to me and what better way to go through life than, as Walt Whitman wrote, be "both in and out of the game and watching and wondering at it" at the same time. Living it fully and observing it, be the witness of it all. I love this universe and this amazing human experience and do my best to embrace it all... the good, the bad, the ugly and the beautiful.
What I’m doing with my life
Living it... Living full and honest. Enjoying it!!! Savoring it!!!
Life is movement, fluctuation and change... I am just enchanted, spellbound, by the magic and beauty of it all.
I’m really good at
I won' t bore you with all my countless talents and abilities... lol. You'll just have to find out for yourself. Just ask me when we meet :)
The first things people usually notice about me
My gracefulness...(?) That I am present. That I am not from here... The truth is that I don' t really know and I don' t care.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Why don' t they ever ask about art in those things?
The six things I could never do without
I could probably live without much besides food, shelter and clothes but what would be the point of that? It is all a question of balance, right? So, here is a non all inclusive list.
Nature, breathing, yoga, love, books, relationships, music, sex, hugs and kisses... Why only six? Oh a last one, solitude... Ok more movement, stillness...ART... Laughing. Chocolate.
On a typical Friday night I am
ANYwhere, EVERYwhere, NO-where , SOMEwhere... I guess... HAHAHAHA. Sometimes, I just got tire answering silly questions.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm very much an open book and therefore there isn't really anything that i won't admit. I have no reason to be ashamed of who i am. I like me :)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
If you are curious and like to explore possibilities.
If you are well grounded and know yourself very well.
If when i say " the ethical slut " you know what I am talking about; but if you don' t, ask me as I like to talk about these things.
Why not?