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38 Heemstede, Netherlands Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:49pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Might want kids
English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), German (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Spend many years in ICT till I figured that I was on the wrong track and decided to switch lanes. Quit my job and went to university to get a M.Sc. degree in mechanical engineering while working part-time to pay my way (teaching mechatronics). Then I embarked on a new career in technology becoming a lecturer and also started my own company offering commercial courses and technical advice. It's been 5 years since my graduation and either of these activities will pay my bills. However, this path through life has impacted my personal life a bit. So here I am, looking to revitalize it with a lovely, adventureous and free-spirited gal.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Actually, ... I'm living it. With all the ups and downs that that entails. Sure, it gets lonely occasionally and the daily routine does sometimes gets the better of me. But then there are also those beautiful summer evenings spent cycling or those quiet and warm star filled nights while kayaking around Haarlem. In the springtime, the first salty tastes of the outdoors when launching my beach catamaran through the surf. I work daily with young adults and I have my own small company. So I'm blessed with the good fortune of succes after having invested lots effort in developing my skills. This wasn't always easy, sometimes even downright hard, but I believe that it has made me a better person as well.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Analysing, conceptualizing and thinking out of the box. Yes, yes, sometimes I'm a bit of a nerd but I have always been able to combine that with a social streak in my personality. Additionally, learning new sports or anything related to movement has always come quite natural to me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I seem to project an open, trustworthy and dependable personality. Perfectly unkown people always seem to ask me for advice or directions when I'm in a shop or even when travelling abroad. They are always surprised to find that I'm just as unfamiliar to that situation as they are ! But don't worry, I'm sure the second impression is more nuanced and alot less boring ! ;-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Book : "Het schitterend ongeluk" by Wim Kayzer
Movies : Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Atonement.
Music : From Levels/Avicii to Ella Fitzgerald and Louis Armstrong.
Food : I'm pretty big on Sushi these days. I also like spicy food.
Shows : Does anybody remember "Due South" as a TV series ? And Buffy of course ! (don't watch TV anymore, real life is more exiting !)

Try this for some background music while reading through my profile (The hounds of winter) :

And this one too ! (great version of a good song)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Science, knowledge and art ; otherwise my brain starves.
people ; got a sort of love-hate relationship going on there.
The world ; I like to feel connected to the world around me, hence I like doing sports out in the open.
Male-Female duo-unity : Why do so many deny or fight this very important aspect of being human ?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Lots of things actually.

For example ; why women will pick a player and try to change him into a dependable man instead of seeking out a dependable man, change his clothes and boost his selfesteem so he'll display the same outward desireables as the player ? God knows, the latter is far easier to achieve and sounds like a real keeper ! =)

And that for males it is time to be real men again ! Get off the couch, turn-off that game console and engage the real world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Got a busy job and run a small company in my spare time. Friday night for me is first and foremost about unwinding from the demanding week that preceded it. There are no fixed rules about how this is achieved.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I write (talk) too much ! =)
You should message me if
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You are looking for an engaging friendship or when you are looking for something serious. I'd like to have contact in a meaningful way and am looking for a nice lady who's smart, spontaneous, wise, loving (sensual ?) and is not afraid of living life, being who she is and engaging the world around her.

I've also found that it really helps when you've gained some life experience, have a job with a decent income and take care of yourself. As indeed I do too.