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37 Heemstede, Netherlands Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body type
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Might want kids
English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), German (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Worked a decade in ICT before I figured that I was on the wrong track and decided to quit my job and went to university to get a M.Sc. degree in mechanical engineering. Graduated several years ago and became a lecturer and also created my own company selling commercial courses and technical advice. With that behind me, I'm now looking for an adventureous and free-spirited gal to embark on the next challenge. … just did a personality test I'm a INFP type.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living it ! With all the ups and downs that that entails. Sure, it gets lonely occasionally but then there are also those summer evenings spent cycling or those warm star filled nights while kayaking around Haarlem. These put everything back into perspective. Simple pleasures can be the best right ? Would love to share these (and other activities like landyachting or theater visits) with someone.

All the other stuff like a decade of arthouse movie theater volunteer work, international politics or amateur acting is best saved for our talk over coffee. Must leave some surprises to be discovered during further contact, right ! ;-)

You know, I think I would really like to do Argentinian Tango dancing again (did for three years) and get really good at it. You wanna join me ?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Analysing, conceptualizing and thinking out of the box. Yes, sometimes I'm a bit of a nerd but I also have a strong social streak in my personality. … I'm also told I can write "a good piece", must be my INFP personality type.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I seem to project an open, trustworthy and dependable personality. Perfectly unkown people always seem to ask me for advice or directions when I'm in a shop or even when travelling abroad. They are always very surprised to find that I'm just as unfamiliar to that situation as they are !
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Book : "Het schitterend ongeluk" by Wim Kayzer
Movies : Eternal Sunshine ... , Life as a House, Atonement.
Music : From Levels/Avicii to Ella Fitzgerald and Louis Armstrong.
Food : I'm pretty big on Korean food these days.
Shows : Does anybody remember "Due South" as a TV series ? And Buffy of course ! (don't watch TV anymore, real life is more exiting !)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Science, knowledge and art ; otherwise my brain starves.
People ; got a sort of love-hate relationship going on there.
The world ; I like to experience the world around me, hence I like to do sports out in the open and travel.
Male-Female duo-unity : Would you like to join me in this dance ?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Lots of things actually.

These two thought provoking video's for example : (for a good laugh as well) (more serious but very true)

She makes some good points.

But also why some think that my photos are not really all pictures of me ! I assure you they all are and they're recent too.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Got a busy job and run a small company in my spare time. Friday night for me is first and foremost about unwinding from the demanding week that preceded it. There are no fixed rules about how this is achieved.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can be a bit argumentative and sometimes a bit sarcastic too.

I'm stupid like that.
You should message me if
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You want an engaging friendship or when you are looking for something serious. I'd like to meet a nice girl who's smart, spontaneous, wise, loving, mischievous and is not afraid of living life and engaging the world around her.

I've also found that it really helps when you've gained some life experience, have a job and understand what works and what doesn't.

And ohh, initiating contact is cool for a girl, it is the 21st century, no ? I try my best to find you amongst the bulk of empty (fake?) profiles, but we can "cut to the chase" if you help me out just a little. Thanks.