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aero2718

44 M Medford, MA

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Strictly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and very serious about it
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Education
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid, and might want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I like well-rounded, interesting, and curious people, and those profound, wide-ranging conversations that stretch into the wee hours. That said, I also like to have fun, to laugh, and to make others laugh, so not everything has to be super-serious or super-deep. I'd say that my positive qualities--in descending order of importance--are being kind, passionate, smart, funny, and athletic. Most people would describe me as an intellectual, but I'm also into sports and fitness. I have a very logical, analytical side, but I'm also all heart. I'm an introvert, but I'm happier around other people.

I have a challenging and interesting job (two, actually), and have a young son to whom I'm very devoted, but I am missing that special someone in my life. I'm currently separated, getting divorced--that's a done deal, but these things just take some time to sort out. (Surprisingly, OkCupid doesn't have "separated" as a choice--just married or single. Well, I certainly feel single, so that's what I put down.) My ex and I have a amicable relationship, and share custody of our son. But I am definitely ready to move on in terms of a new relationship.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I care about, and like to talk about, ideas. My work (academic and journalistic) is about social and political issues, and I'm very passionate about that, but I'm also interested in the arts, science, etc.

I have strong political views, and aim to help change the world. I say this without a trace of irony. (I find it very strange that OkC doesn't have political views on "My Details." I would think that lots of people would want to search based on political compatibility--I know I would.) I describe myself as a socialist and radical democrat (small "d"). If the word "socialist" makes you want to run screaming from the room, it's probably not worth your while to read further.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Thinking, talking, writing, cycling, singing (sometimes). I also think it's important to be able to do things that you're not great at, and be OK with it. That can actually be fun and liberating. I pretty much have to be great at thinking, talking, and writing, which are my work and really important to my sense of self. I don't have to be great at dancing, skating, running, etc.--but I can still enjoy them all.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don't really know, since I'm not one of those people. I would guess, probably, the fact that I have very little hair on my head. What else? That I just rode by on a bike, going pretty fast. That I'm the guy standing at the front of the room on the first day of class, saying, "I'm Professor *****. If you're not here for *****, you're in the wrong room."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite books and authors:

Social theorists and historians (biggest influences on my work and thinking) -- Marx, Weber, Gramsci, Luxemburg, Trotsky, C. Wright Mills, Eric Foner, E.P. Thompson, Keynes, Michal Kalecki, Amartya Sen.

English fiction and poetry -- Philip Pullman, His Dark Materials; J.K. Rowling, Harry Potter; Stephen King (mostly the non-horror, non-supernatural stuff); Barbara Kingsolver, The Lacuna; Ken Follett, The Century Trilogy; Philip K. Dick; Arthur Conan Doyle, Sherlock Holmes; Philip Roth; Edgar Allen Poe; Robert Frost.

Spanish fiction and poetry -- Pablo Neruda, Nicolas Guillen, Antonio Skarmeta, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Isabel Allende.

I'm really into comix/graphic novels, mainly of a social or political nature -- Art Spiegelman, Maus; Jason Lutes, Berlin; Marjane Satrapi, Persepolis; Guy Delisle; Alison Bechdel; Joe Sacco.

Favorite movies:

The Godfather I and II, Before Sunrise, Before Sunset, Shawshank Redemption, Dazed and Confused, Reds, Motorcycle Diaries, Tambien la lluvia (Even the Rain), Che I and II, Groundhog Day, Rushmore, Jerry Maguire, Planes Trains and Automobiles, LA Story, Roxanne, Cast Away, Four Weddings and a Funeral, Notting Hill, The Princess Bride, Wall Street, North Dallas Forty, Bull Durham, When Harry Met Sally, Midnight Run, The Full Monty, Bread and Roses.

Favorite TV shows (all time):

West Wing, ER, Friends, Law and Order, Mad Men, Veronica Mars, Sex and the City, Cheers, Seinfeld, Star Trek TNG, The Office, Parks and Recreation, How I Met Your Mother.

Favorite music:

The Beatles, Rolling Stones, Led Zepplin, Jimi Hendrix, Sting, Bob Dylan, Neil Young, Billy Joel, The Doors, Bruce Springsteen, Prince, Gillian Welch, Billy Bragg, Victor Jara, Silvio Rodriguez, Chavela Vargas, Bob Marley, Manu Chao, Ella Fitzgerald, Gershwin, Mozart, Beethoven, Prokofiev.

I should probably stop now.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Words, sunshine, music, family, friends, love. Could I do without the world? Well, I've asked people before whether they would be willing to go spend a year living on one of the moons of Jupiter or Saturn. Most people say no, but my answer (practical considerations aside) would be an enthusiastic yes. (The commute, I admit, would be a drag.) Could I do without a broader community? I wouldn't want to, but I could as long as I had friends and family to rely on. I'm not sure I could do without books, electricity, or animals, but it said only six!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to make the world a better place--more equal, more democratic, more free, and more just.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having dinner with my son, playing with him in a park, and putting him to bed. On Saturday night, though, I'd like to go out with the right person for a nice dinner, a movie, live music, a few drinks ...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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By and large, people's profiles make it seem like they're always upbeat and happy. Well, life isn't all sunshine and lollipops. Everyone has ups and downs. I think we'd all be better off if we admitted that.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you recognize some of yourself in the above description. If, when you describe yourself, you find yourself writing about what seem like paradoxes or contradictions--but are just different aspects of your personality. If you really want to say something about yourself and why you think we might have a connection (not just say "hi" or ask a simple question like "what field are you in?"). If you want to write to someone who will write back, one way or another, and would consider it discourteous not to. Above all, if you think we might hit it off and are willing to give that a chance.