INFP (Introverted, Intuitive, Feeling, Perceiving in meyers-briggs land)

I identify as genderqueer and pansexual. :)

I'm really interested in meeting patient, kind, people who are okay with long silences and who like to work together on projects!

I'm a liberal arts drop out, for now, trying to learn about the world by experiencing it. I spend a lot of time evaluating and reevaluating things, trying to figure out what is good, and what good is. I am pretty reserved most of the time, waiting to spend my energy when needed, usually in righting wrongs, being supportive and compassionate towards those who need it, taking on outlandish projects, slaying dragons, and so on.

I wander and wonder and look for good, meaningful things to do and trying to do mundane things in good, meaningful ways. I have a habit of diving headfirst into things that catch my attention, and I'm trying to dive deeper every time. Sometimes I get burned out and am tempted away by other wonderful things, but I think it's a great way to live. Right now I'm deeply involved in helping to build cooperative communities, which I hope will continue to be an awesome part of my life, but adventure is calling me and I think my next move may in some way involve the Pacific Ocean.

I like to build relationships around conversations about communication, systems, efficiency, perspective, art, expression, gender, idealism, and defied expectations. I operate on the idea that anything is possible!

fighting for the things I believe in, starting projects conceived of in left field, holding hands, loving weird, filling silences with adventures, holding out for genuine and good things, postulating new ideas, household maintenance, ice skating, hunting down sustainable choices, neutralizing conflicts, finding alive but peaceful places to spend time, hiding from scary things, building forts to hide in, looking for the best in other people.

My incredible height (5'10"!). I have been told I have an air of confidence about myself, but really, I think that's just the outer shell of wheels constantly spinning in my head. People often notice that I think a lot. Sometimes too much for my mouth to catch up with. I can be pretty shy and awkward at first, but I'll get through it with some patience! After that, people usually notice my talent in conversational puns wars and my warm, eager heart. (d'aww!)

I have a VHS collection. It's awesome! I like everything except dramatized violence, which I think is stupid and dangerous. My all time favorites are, in no particular order, are Braveheart, Labyrinth, Newsies, The Lion King, Peter Pan (Starring Cathy Rigby, although I grew up with Mary Martin), Fur: An Imaginary Portrait of Diane Arbus, Brazil, Waking Life, and Jurassic Park.

I like open, honest music. My favorites are Iron & Wine, Grouper, The Horse Feathers, Riceboy Sleeps, Girls, Bjork, Broken Social Scene, Phantogram, Third Eye Blind, Rise Against, and The Used. I used to be really in to Tool.

I could eat Pad Thai forever. I found a recipe for perfect Pad Thai sauce, and if you want to try to make it with me that would be cool! I like pasta dishes, mushrooms, broccoli, pears, chai tea lattes, and fancy cheeses. I like to learn about new food, but I'm reeeeally bad at dinner dates! You have been warned!

1. Snuggly blankets
2. Space to be myself
3. Honesty and openness
4. Community
5. Projects to lend myself to
6. Nature

so many things! Emotions and expression, gender, relationships, language, time, power dynamics, how things would change if institutions collapsed, people, people, people. Even in situations unsocial, relationships we hold with people, the universe, myself, emotions and desires are constantly on my mind. I think a lot about shoes, queer fashion, and haircuts too. :)

Home or the grocery store. Maybe trying to get people to have heavy conversations with me, or reading Harry Potter fan fiction, or dancing to insane music if it finds me. Probably somewhere asking too many questions.

I love sensuality and kissing. I melt over romantic interests, although I may appear cold or distracted. I love people, so so much, and my tendencies to fall for people actually scares me a lot. I try to resist falling for people, but the truth simply is that I think humans are amazing, and I have a history of giving to my breaking point in relationships I care about. I'm afraid of having my heart broken. Please, if you want to contact me, be completely real with me.

you have a genuine heart and if you could like a nice girl, if you would like to hold my hand. If you like to talk about feelings, or are ready to try. If you want to do something cool together and see what happens. If you want to create something awesome, and want a co-creator.